I have been seeing this girl for over 10 months now, i met her at work after just moving to a new town and we became really good friends really quickly. After awhile she decided to move into “staff accom” with me, this seemed like a good idea. She is 7 years older then me but we both got passed that. We decided to sleep together after awhile of being comfortable with each other. After that things were even better between us and she told me a lot of her past, secrets, general life experience, and so on. But she did just get out of a two year relationship and she was convincing me that it was done…not the case. She still talked to him all the time, “visiting” him a few hours away and eagerly awaiting his calls. So i then decided to see other girls, this is when sh** went down hill. She pulled me away from talking with this new girl and dropped a bomb.. “you have no idea what im giving up for you..bla bla bla”. So being a sucker i fell for it and got burned hardcore when he moved back into town (plus she was sleeping with other guys after we stopped sleeping together shortly before he came back) . So a few months later i moved back home. She called me every other day, reminiscing about the old times and how much she misses me and how her ex is treating her like shit and so on. I decided to visit her for a week, and it was probably this best week of my life with her…until the last day when i caught her sleeping with her ex… I then excommunicated her from my life for 3 months. She decided to put herself through a treatment program and rehab center (yes she does of “issues”) and apparently devoted herself to god now and she started this for me.. and it finishing it for herself. Since i gave her my number again she has literally called me every day and has admitted to the “manipulative monster” she was before and made a pretty intense amend with me. She says i “saved her life without knowing it” She apparently wants to start a monogamous life with me and wants to be my “partner” and swears up and down she’ll never go back to that life. Although she did talk to her ex about getting back together just before we started talking again..She hasn’t talked to him in a month..and is apperently ready to give me everything i deserve now that im back in her life…Should i believe her? Her plan is to live with me in a new city..should i give her that chance? Am i still on the back burner?
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