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I have tried all I know. He’s an alcoholic. I tell him to get out, he says no. I threaten to leave, he says make sure you take it all, because you’re never coming back in here. He’s missing more and more work. He’s usually at least an hour late daily and misses a few days a month because he’s hung over and has been up all night. He plays World or Warcraft every moment he isn’t working. He does sleep overs a couple times a month…probably with his brother. He won’t have anything to do with me physically…nothing. I have no proof, but I’m pretty sure he’s using drugs.

I hate that I feel like my only option is to leave and struggle or stay and be miserable. I am a complete idiot for having kids with him…I already know that. I would really like to know how a strong woman would deal with this. I always hear women say “I wouldn’t put up with that”. Do you mean you’d leave? Or what would you do? Who would you involve? I can’t find a counselor who will see us until he’s ready to deal with his addiction. He does not think he has a problem. He thinks I am his problem. He’s called me a retard and has threatened to have me put away in a mental hospital if I keep bugging him.

How do I put my foot down? Or do I have to leave? I’m so scared for my kids future, whether I stay or leave. He has told me he’d vanish before he’d pay child support to me, so that’s out of the question to count on too.

Help. I know he’s messed up and I would rather make it work. Help.
Anne, we’ve done the intervention. He won’t go and he refuses to leave the house.
Again, I’m hearing make him move out. HOW??? That’s what I want, but he won’t go!

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Please do not tell me what i should have done to remain a virgin… I know good and well .i lost my virginity it at 14 1/2 after sept 11 to be exact… lot of things contributed… bad advice, fear of the world ending and it not being something i experienced, and low self-esteem. later i lost both of my parents a year apart of each other.

I try to stop but i do it for the false companionship…. sometimes i try to keep one partner to cut down on the numbers but i lose interest quick and find another. I have been hurt by many of them and only 5 meant anything to me. I do it to releave stress but i do get depressed and regret it but i cant seem to say no.. i day dream about sex and notice that one of the first things i do when i meet a guy is judge on how good it would feel to be with them sexually.

I’ve had only 2 longterm relationships… and very faithful but when im not in a relationship i cant control myself
* telling myself it isnt right.. i am worth more … etc. does not work trust i am about to be an insurance agent. Im an orphan who takes care of my younger sis and her daughter and live in a townhouse. get paid nicely. am very beautiful and talented. But i cannot control my impulse to have sex! and i wanna stress impulse because i really think that i do it just to do it. I wanna be loved having no parents leaves a big emotional gap and i wanna fill it but how can i do that if i cant resist sleeping with someone before i get them to really know me. I again wanna say i dont think i have low self esteem i just really cant say no to sexual situations and i sometimes create them… I should get help right? am i alone?
* My parents know i was not a virgin i told them.. we were very close yes they wer disappointed. but bottomline was they were there for me. IMy father did tell me that i need to be careful that a sexual addiction runs in the family( i actually have an uncle with 26 kids/ 6 being from his current wife) could this be what is happening. is this a part of my heritage or did his words subconsciously stay in my mind and trigger this behaviour
lmao not a fear of the world ending! when i lost it.. that was one of the reasons .. seems dumb but i was still a child:(

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I am addicted to oxycotton, I have been to rehab once, and I was back using a few weeks after I got out. It has been 2 years since rehab and my addiction has grown worse. Now I do ice, cocain, herion, extacy, etc and I’m shooting up all the time. The only thing I think about & look foward to everyday is shooting up oxycotton. I do not know anyone else but drug addicts so when I try to quit or get away I become lonely,bored, and over welmed by life and relapse. I have tried suboxone, specialised out patient treatment, drug tharapy and a.a meetings. I’m a good, young, smart, & attractive man; I believe in God and I want to live a good life. I have everything going for me but the drugs are holding me back & slowly killing me. Nothing seems to work I dunno what else to do. I want to quit, I’m sick and tired of the pain and suffering if I cant quite this time I know I will die.

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Ever since I was a child I’ve felt like I don’t belong. I just don’t seem to fit in to any group. That feeling I feel led me into 30 plus years of alcohol and drug addiction. I’ve been clean going on 3 years. I’ve been in a 12 step program, doing everything that is suggested of me to the best of my ability with the promise that I will know what happiness is. Often I feel that I welcome death. Because I already feel dead emotionally, mentally, spiritually, so why should I not be dead physically also? Is there really a reason I should be here?

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I am addicted to oxycotton, I have been to rehab once, and I was back using a few weeks after I got out. It has been 2 years since rehab and my addiction has grown worse. Now I do ice, cocain, herion, extacy, etc and I’m shooting up all the time. The only thing I think about & look foward to everyday is shooting up oxycotton. I do not know anyone else but drug addicts so when I try to quit or get away I become lonely,bored, and over welmed by life and relapse. I have tried suboxone, specialised out patient treatment, drug tharapy and a.a meetings. I’m a good, young, smart, & attractive man; I believe in God and I want to live a good life. I have everything going for me but the drugs are holding me back & slowly killing me. Nothing seems to work I dunno what else to do. I want to quit, I’m sick and tired of the pain and suffering if I cant quite this time I know I will die.

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I am a smoker – have been for a little over 10 years. I can quit for days/weeks at a time, but am still a smoker. I am not a fool in thinking “I can quit at any time” I know it’s an addiction, and need to confront it. Problem is – my BF has no idea I smoke! I have hidden it for almost a year (always bathing, brushing teeth etc. before seeing him)
I love this man with all my heart. We have plans to move in together and get married, which means I need to quit for good. My question is:
– Do I try to do it by myself (mood swings and weight gain issues I have to confront by myself)…OR
– Do I confess that I still secretly smoke and ask for his help in quitting, (this means unleashing MANY issues too lengthy to note here…examples were he lied about not being divorced…and lied about how old he was (thought he was 35 – he’s 45!) I gave him living hell for lying, and yet here I am lying about something else!)
PS – He is divorced now! But still 45! And I still secretly smoke!

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THE TRUTH OF THE LIFE OF THIS WORLD (Video)

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Wickedness, injustice,grief, pessimism,trouble, loneliness, fear, stress, frustration, distrust, unscrupulousness,anxiety, rage, jealousy, resentment, drug addiction,immorality, gambling, prostitution, hunger, poverty, social corruption, theft, war, struggle, violence, oppression, fear of death…News about these issues appear in the newspapers and on TV every day.The popular press devotes entire pages to these subjects, while others serialise articles about their psychological and social aspects. However,our acquaintance with these feelings is not limited solely to the press; in daily life,we,too,frequently come across such problems and, more importantly, personally experience them.
People and societies endeavour to liberate themselves from the distressing experiences,disorder and repressive social structures that have prevailed over the world for long periods.
We only need to glance at ancient Greece; the Great Roman Empire; Tsarist Russia, or the so-called Age of Enlightenment, and even the 20th century-a century of misery which saw two world wars and world-wide social disasters. No matter upon which century or location you concentrate your research, the picture will not be appreciably different.
If this is the case, why haven’t people succeeded in solving these problems, or at least some efforts been made to remove such social diseases from society?
People have encountered these problems in all ages, yet each time they have failed to find any solutions because the methods they employed were inappropriate. They sought various solutions, tried different political systems, laid down impracticable and totalitarian rules, stirred up revolutions or subscribed to perverted ideologies, while many others preferred to adopt an indifferent attitude and merely accepted the status quo.
In our day, people are almost numbed by this way of living. They readily believe these problems to be “facts of life.” They picture a society immune to these problems as being nothing short of impossible-a dream utopia. They persistently and openly express their distaste for such a way of living, yet easily embrace it, since they think they have no other alternative.
The resolution of all these problematic issues is possible only by living by the principles of the “true religion.” Only when the values of true religion prevail can a pleasant and tranquil scene replace this gloomy and unfavourable picture, which is doomed to continue so long as God’s limits are ignored. To put it another way, people are enslaved by these complications as long as they avoid the values of the Qur’an. Put simply, this is the “nightmare of disbelief” and the link below for this wonderful book:

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you will find how the regulation of life by the “norms of morality” introduced by the Qur’an revealed to mankind by God will banish the “nightmare of disbelief,” how pessimism, corruption and social restlessness can be eliminated from society, how the individual can surround himself with an ideal environment, what spiritual and material benefits he is likely to attain by adherence to these norms of morality are gone into in detail, and finally, that the unique alternative to all these problems is the morality of the Qur’an.
So far, many books have attempted to deal with the social and psychological problems societies face. Yet, what distinguishes this book from others is its stress on the most realistic solution. It also sincerely warns people against the troublesome future they are likely to face if they fail to resort to this solution.
We expect that every reader of conscience will grasp that peace, mutual trust and an ideal social life is attainable only by embracing the values of the Qur’an and will turn to the true religion, which is Islam.
They will then happily join the ranks of those who never suffer, mentally or physically, from any of the above-mentioned complications. Around them, there will always be an abundance of favours, comfort, love, respect, peace and confidence, and moral virtues will prevail. They will know how to earn God’s approval, by observing His limits and the commandments of the Qur’an. They will thus, by having faith in God, attain His mercy and at last enter Paradise.

Useful link:
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I am addicted to oxycotton, I have been to rehab once, and I was back using a few weeks after I got out. It has been 2 years since rehab and my addiction has grown worse. Now I do ice, cocain, herion, extacy, etc and I’m shooting up all the time. The only thing I think about & look foward to everyday is shooting up oxycotton. I do not know anyone else but drug addicts so when I try to quit or get away I become lonely,bored, and over welmed by life and relapse. I have tried suboxone, specialised out patient treatment, drug tharapy and a.a meetings. I’m a good, young, smart, & attractive man; I believe in God and I want to live a good life. I have everything going for me but the drugs are holding me back & slowly killing me. Nothing seems to work I dunno what else to do. I want to quit, I’m sick and tired of the pain and suffering if I cant quite this time I know I will die.

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I like s*e*x…a lot… i see people on the street and wonder what it would be like to have s*e*x with them. I have tons of s*e*x dreams…am I normal or do I have an addiction?

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Does anyone know of your addiction?

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