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Question by Cinderelle: Please guide me if I reacted wrong with him, I get wreck less, scared, shall i give him chance or i leave?
my fiancée an addict from 10 years I discovered after our engagement and I went with him to ( N A ) Narcotics Anonymous is an international, community-based association of recovering drug addicts and he’s in recovery and made 5 month now (you can’t all imagine the effort I did with him to pass his first steps) he was doing great and his supervisor was so happy from his result and suddenly he relapsed two days ago and he refused to back again to the (Na) and his supervisor called in the morning to come to his house to convince him to restart again, once he saw me he fall down with non stop crying at after talking to him I told him that he betrayed my trust and he’s the one who choose to leave me not me, and I told him I will ask you one thing before I leave your life, go again to (NA) and start over.
At the end he agree to go with them but he keep crying with holding my hand don’t want me to go away from him.. we all shocked from the way he act as he’s very strong person.

Best answer:

Answer by eminems_number1fan4eva
You dont have very good english.

if he is making an effort than that is better than nothing..

Give him a chance to restart..

But don’t stay with him if he keeps going back to the drugs.

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I used to tkae alot of pills when i was younger when out partying,sniff some coke and smoke large amounts of weed. I went through a very low depressive stage. I then met a great guy who took my mind off it all completely,for about 10 months i touched nothing and then fell back into a small circle i used to go out with… For about 4 months now i have been sniffing coke behind my partners back, and the guilt is killing me, my partner works nights so i am often left alone at home, so i then meet somebody to do a bit of coke with, at the time it seems a great idea, a small buzz, but then once i have done it, i feel like my old depressed self again, and my partner doesnt deserve to be lied to, i would love to come clean, but i am embarresed of being seen as weak, as my partner is so strong. I am a very easily led person… and need alot of help… so please any suggestions you can give will help… feel free to let rip at me because, i know what i am doing is wrong, but the drugs just seem to pull me.. I cant go to rehab, encase i loose my job, i have a good job and very career minded… its like im living a secret life????

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I finally did it. My husband used up all our money; had a terrible substance abuse problem – went to rehab – came back and began again after 1.5 months. He has not helped with bills – basically he made more bills for us.

When I went to the lawyer today, she said she would file the papers on friday and have him served next week.

I just feel scared about being out on my own with my 3 kids. Did or does anyone else have or had the same feeling?
I know we are better off without him and his abuse.

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The Left’s tolerance knows no bounds. Practiced in the art of understanding and forgiving human foibles, and averse to the “judgment” they find so intolerable in those who think there are actually values such as right and wrong, good and bad, virtue and evil, liberals demonstrate every day how morally evolved they are. No matter how egregious or even illegal the behavior, they say it’s either a “private matter” or “irrelevant.” For instance:

* President Bill Clinton’s serial philandering, years-long Oval-office affair with a White House intern, and conviction and disbarment for perjury.
* Presidential candidate John Edwards’ cheating on his cancer-ridden wife and fathering a child with his girlfriend.
* Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt becoming the parents of six children but not getting around to marrying.

* Jodie Foster, Jessica Alba, Nicole Richie, and other Hollywood denizens “choosing” to have babies without getting married, including teenagers Jamie Lynn Spears, Keisha Castle Hughes, Solange Knowles, et al. – which Hollywood celebrates in movies like “Juno.” Uncountable celebrities and politicians’ “acting out” with driving-under-the-Influence and drug arrests, stints in rehab, relapses.

“It’s none of anyone’s business,” the understanding liberals intone. “It’s not related to the job they do!”

Except, that is, when these moral arbiters decide that it’s everyone’s business and highly relevant to the “public’s right to know.”

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I am 22 weeks pregnant with my first child. I have made some very poor choices. I have been smoking meth 1-2 times a month for a couple days at a time. I know i am a poor excuse for a person and used very bad judgement. I was being selfish and the addiction, which is hard for me to say cause I never thought I was, but putting my child at risk makes me realize I am, was to strong for me. I recently met up with someone I haven’t seen in a long time and realized she is strung out and shooting meth up and is 2 months pregnant. I got a serious reality wake up check. I am very scared I have already done irrepairable damage to my baby and will not touch it again I can gauranteee it. My boyfriend has no idea i have been using, but knows of past use. I realized today that i have a very loving relaitonship with someone who loves me very much and have been blessed with a gift, my baby. I fear though I have already ruined it all. I would be devastated if I lost either of them. If i don’t touch the stuff at all ever again is there any way someone could find out I have done it during my pregnancy, if so how? Is it too late for me? I am willing to do anything not to lose my family!!!!! I know i should have thought about it sooner and thats my fault. I was blinded by the drug. someone please help me. tell me what to do. I am normally a very responsible person and have been through alot in my life. I know better than this and realized today this is not me at all. This is not my life. Is there any way i can move on from this without anyone knowing of my poor judgement??? If my boyfriend found out i ever touched the stuff again he would leave me, which i don’t blame, but I don’t want to lose the best things in my life. Can I fix this??? someone please help!!!!!

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I am 22 weeks pregnant with my first child. I have made some very poor choices. I have been smoking meth 1-2 times a month for a couple days at a time. I know i am a poor excuse for a person and used very bad judgement. I was being selfish and the addiction, which is hard for me to say cause I never thought I was, but putting my child at risk makes me realize I am, was to strong for me. I recently met up with someone I haven’t seen in a long time and realized she is strung out and shooting meth up and is 2 months pregnant. I got a serious reality wake up check. I am very scared I have already done irrepairable damage to my baby and will not touch it again I can gauranteee it. My boyfriend has no idea i have been using, but knows of past use. I realized today that i have a very loving relaitonship with someone who loves me very much and have been blessed with a gift, my baby. I fear though I have already ruined it all. I would be devastated if I lost either of them. If i don’t touch the stuff at all ever again is there any way someone could find out I have done it during my pregnancy, if so how? Is it too late for me? I am willing to do anything not to lose my family!!!!! I know i should have thought about it sooner and thats my fault. I was blinded by the drug. someone please help me. tell me what to do. I am normally a very responsible person and have been through alot in my life. I know better than this and realized today this is not me at all. This is not my life. Is there any way i can move on from this without anyone knowing of my poor judgement??? If my boyfriend found out i ever touched the stuff again he would leave me, which i don’t blame, but I don’t want to lose the best things in my life. Can I fix this??? someone please help!!!!!

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