Confidential Drug Rehabilitation

i am tired of dealing with these double standards. before i found out my husband had a secret addiction to porn i consider it addiction because our sex life sucked and still does. talking to him is useless because of his mentality. he wants me to please him but he never just does anything to just please me w/o expecting anythign back. the lower he will go is my stomach this was before i got pregnant. i am sexually not satisfied with him, he watched porn but behind my back even if asked to watch with me he wouldn’t have done that because he doesn’t want me looking at naked men. he has a problem withme looking at men period mite it be celeberty or anyone on mtv. but it was ok for him to look at naked women videos. since i found out he deosn’t have the nerve to tell me what i shuld or shuldn’t watch like snoop doggs video lol its pathetic my life. he was going to do this if it wasn’t for me catching him. waht else do i have to find out about him. :( what shuld i do? how do i set himstr8

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I have a very hard time with this. I just want to know if anyone has a reason they’ve heard or used themselves that justifies doing this to your baby… a infant that DEPENDS on you. I have 2 former friends that are doing this. Drugs I can somewhat understand, as they are an addiction that is near-to-impossible to quit without help and a strong resolve.
Ok, I know that smoking and drinking are also addictions. I used to smoke, but had no problem quitting when pregnancy was a possibility. My dad is an alcoholic, so, yes, I know. But, my opinion is, drugs like herion are SEVERLY addictive and mind-altering to a point where the person is no longer sane. I’m not excusing it, just understanding it.

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I’m 17 and my EX girlfriend Brooke told me today she is pregnant with my child. We had very troubled relationship we dated for almost 2 years. When i first met her we where totally in love. We were almost inseparable. Things started to turn sour when she started using marijuana. At first i didn’t have a problem with it i had tried marijuana before and figured she would just experiment like i had. Eventually she started doing cocaine and i started really getting concerned. She told me that it was just a recreational thing and she could quit anytime she wanted. When she began using heroin i freaked out. heroin scares the shit out of me it has lead to the downfall of some many of my heroes like Layne Staley and didn’t want that to happen to her. She told me she used drugs because it makes her extremely horny and better in bed. She took my virginity and vice versa. I let it continue because although she was high the sex was amazing and because i wasn’t thinking clearly. She then got caught and went to jail for a year on drug possession charges. She got out in October and i finally told her about my secret i had a one night stand when she was behind bars that resulted in my son Joesph. She flipped out and broke her promise to me to stay clean. Then she called my son a bastard child and a worthless piece of shit. We broke up after she forced me to choose between her or Joesph i chose my son. She went to rehab where i met her at a meeting and we talked about getting back together she still loves me. Today she told me she was pregnant and i am the father. We had sex after she got out of jail a few times but i recall using a condom every time however she insists one time i didn’t should i believe her?
it’s hard enough to raise my one son i couldn’t imagine raising another child. If it is my child i will raise and care for it just like i do for my son.

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I am 22 weeks pregnant with my first child. I have made some very poor choices. I have been smoking meth 1-2 times a month for a couple days at a time. I know i am a poor excuse for a person and used very bad judgement. I was being selfish and the addiction, which is hard for me to say cause I never thought I was, but putting my child at risk makes me realize I am, was to strong for me. I recently met up with someone I haven’t seen in a long time and realized she is strung out and shooting meth up and is 2 months pregnant. I got a serious reality wake up check. I am very scared I have already done irrepairable damage to my baby and will not touch it again I can gauranteee it. My boyfriend has no idea i have been using, but knows of past use. I realized today that i have a very loving relaitonship with someone who loves me very much and have been blessed with a gift, my baby. I fear though I have already ruined it all. I would be devastated if I lost either of them. If i don’t touch the stuff at all ever again is there any way someone could find out I have done it during my pregnancy, if so how? Is it too late for me? I am willing to do anything not to lose my family!!!!! I know i should have thought about it sooner and thats my fault. I was blinded by the drug. someone please help me. tell me what to do. I am normally a very responsible person and have been through alot in my life. I know better than this and realized today this is not me at all. This is not my life. Is there any way i can move on from this without anyone knowing of my poor judgement??? If my boyfriend found out i ever touched the stuff again he would leave me, which i don’t blame, but I don’t want to lose the best things in my life. Can I fix this??? someone please help!!!!!

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We have been dating for 3 months now.. I’m 2 months pregnant! My boyfriend Shawn wanted kids before.. but now..he says he dont want any.. I been keeping this a secret, but I think I should tell him now.. He is 27 and I’m 26.. I don’t know if I should get a abortion, consider adoption, or keep the baby.. Help me!! I might be pregnant with 3 kids!! He won’t take care of the babies.. I know he won’t… His dream to become CEO came true! He won’t have no time to take care of his kids.. I’m actually crying right now!! I have to take care of my niece and nephew because my sister is in rehab and just had a baby but dont know who the father is.. I don’t want to end up like that!! HELP ME!! please..
No I meant I might have 3!! I DONT KNOW!! HELP ME!!
But what if he dont take care of the kids!! WHAT TO DO!?!?

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I am 22 weeks pregnant with my first child. I have made some very poor choices. I have been smoking meth 1-2 times a month for a couple days at a time. I know i am a poor excuse for a person and used very bad judgement. I was being selfish and the addiction, which is hard for me to say cause I never thought I was, but putting my child at risk makes me realize I am, was to strong for me. I recently met up with someone I haven’t seen in a long time and realized she is strung out and shooting meth up and is 2 months pregnant. I got a serious reality wake up check. I am very scared I have already done irrepairable damage to my baby and will not touch it again I can gauranteee it. My boyfriend has no idea i have been using, but knows of past use. I realized today that i have a very loving relaitonship with someone who loves me very much and have been blessed with a gift, my baby. I fear though I have already ruined it all. I would be devastated if I lost either of them. If i don’t touch the stuff at all ever again is there any way someone could find out I have done it during my pregnancy, if so how? Is it too late for me? I am willing to do anything not to lose my family!!!!! I know i should have thought about it sooner and thats my fault. I was blinded by the drug. someone please help me. tell me what to do. I am normally a very responsible person and have been through alot in my life. I know better than this and realized today this is not me at all. This is not my life. Is there any way i can move on from this without anyone knowing of my poor judgement??? If my boyfriend found out i ever touched the stuff again he would leave me, which i don’t blame, but I don’t want to lose the best things in my life. Can I fix this??? someone please help!!!!!

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