Ok I’m 14 and have been going out with my first Boyfriend, who is also 14, since about March 2008. I’m Hispanic and he’s African American. I love him VERY much. We always talk on the phone ’till 1am even on school days. He has always been very quiet and looks very depressed sometimes. I always ask if he’s alright, and he always says ‘yea’, so I never really thought anything of it. But one night while talking on the phone with me, he just opened up to me that his Older Brother, Mom, and Dad do drugs. I was so shocked that I began tearing up, I tried to be strong but I could hear his quiver and then he began to cry and so I did the only thing I could think of; and cried on the phone with him. Every time I tried to calm down, more tears would come. We cried there for a good 20 minutes and in the middle of crying he told me that he wouldn’t know what to do without me and that he loved me and I told him the same. Once we finally calmed down he told me to promise never to tell anyone at all what he told me, and I did. But now I need help, I keep telling him to tell someone so they can help but he says he’s scared what will happen to them. I really don’t want to bring it up because I’m scared of seeing him like that again. I’ve been trying to go on the internet and search about going to rehab vs. going to jail but I still kind of confused on what the rules in Georgia are like for drug addicts. If anyone has any help to offer, PLEASE tell me. And Thank You for taking the time to read this.
I’m sorry, I know I must sound really stupid and overreacting. But this is the first time that anything like this (involving drugs) has happened before and I was tired of holding it in. So I’ll try to calm down a bit. Oh, and Thank You to everyone who answered back! They are helping me see how retarded I sounded and calmed me down so I can figure all this out. THANKS AGAIN!!
Clicking advertisements helps keep this site running. thank you!
