Question by : do celebrites take drug and alcohol rehab as a joke? and use it just to improve public image?
and then, when things blow over, go back to drinking and doing drrugs, like lindsey lohan will?
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Answer by Jellybean
yup
look at Micheal Jackson
took drug to improive it self
did damage he dead
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Question by Chris: Doesn’t forcing someone into drug rehab just creat an opportunity for them to make new drug connections?
My friend was threatened with the option of going into drug rehab or jail.
Like jail, isn’t drug rehab just exposing you to more unsavory characters?
The only reason he was sent to rehab was because he was drug-tested and they found weed in his system. I know some doctors/lawyers who smoke pot often.
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Answer by Clara Casey
He’s probably alot safer in rehab than he would be in prison.
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Question by Pocket Protecktor: Survey: A girl I know just tested positive for drug use when she was applying for a job…?
…so her question is…does that result end up on some kind of permanent record that other employers could access? Or is that information confidential between her and the company she was applying for…?
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Answer by Daddy’sPrincess
Its between her and the company. They can’t just go showing it to anyone. That’s illegal.
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he has Chlamydia and Genital Warts..
we have had sex =/ without a condom.
im scared. please dont criticize me.
when he told me i just stared into space with my mouth open
and then he was like “babe did you hear me?” and i just said
“yeah” i was suprised then i started balling my eyes out.
idk if it was because of the STD or how clean of drugs he sounded.
i loved his voice. he sounded so perfect.
but the STD thing…wasnt perfect. im scared
it was my first sexual partner and if you even knew why
i had given it up you would understand why i’ve had sex.
look. im not looking to get yelled at.
and im not looking for “ha your screwed” i know i am.
he said both were curable. true?
idk. im scared. im to young for this.
i thought only whores got this xD fuckin unlucky me.
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My girlfriend and i have a long distance relationship (i live in swansea, she lives in bristol). my friends were always cautious due to the distance but i always told them that the distance worked, because it meant our relationship was deeper, seeing as we talk a lot more than anything we do physically. We have been dating for a long while and we had both just told each other that we loved each other. we looked in each others eyes when we did this with huge smiles on our faces, and we took things further than we had ever done with anyone ever before. The next day she went home, and i went back to my home on the wirral for christmas (im a university student). That night i got a message from her telling me she had just slept with an ex who we had had many arguments about because they flirted outragously, even asking each other when they were going to have sex, despite my girlfriend having been a virgin until the night before. Even worse, the next day she slept with him again, although this time she tried to hide it from me until her sister found out what she had done and got her to confess. I dumped her, but i couldnt help myself, and 4 days later we talked and got back together. I am a very forgiving person, and after another week i had forgiven her, because she said the incidents had been due to a large ammount of alcohol and preassure from both her sister and this guy.
Right after i forgave her (i had gotten her to promise to cut all ties with the guy before i could) she promised me he was not going to be at a party she was attending while she was on the phone to me, and not even an hour later i was told she had leapt on him as soon as she got through the door, not 2 minutes after promising he wasnt there. to make things even worse, that was christmas day, and our anniversary.
Its been a month since the kiss, but we have had a lot of problems. my girlfriend says shes sorry, but refuses to say why she did it other than ‘i wasnt thinking, i was drunk, and her sister said to stop teasing the poor bloke (who is almost 10 years older than her) or to sleep with him, so she chose to fuck him on her sister kitchen floor with her nephew in the next room. finally, she admitted she was scared because her feelings for me were getting too serious. She assures me she hasnt done it since, and i believe she doesnt want to hurt me anymore, but i cant shake the feeling she has been going with him behind my back since christmas, and is doing stuff every night due to excessive alcoholism she has now started… Will i ever be able to trust her again? she keeps asking me how she can get my trust back, but i dont have an answer for her, and i cant stop thinking about it, having nightmares, etc… it doesnt help that her and every other girlfriend ive ever had has done it (ive only had 6 in total, but still) and that every single one of them has given reasons as to why it isnt my fault, but i really cant help but think it is…
Until now i have never really been jealous or controlling, but now im rediculously paranoid. can anyone give any suggestions that could help make things easier for us? or that could help us work things out… im practically begging for help here…
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My boyfriend and I both went to Rehab. I went first and he went a week after I got home. When I came home I told him about the patents I had met and the phone numbers I recieved both male and female. And I told him about the conversations that I had the few times right after I came home with the males. there is no cheating in our relationship or secrets. I did this to make everything public to my boyfriend so he would feel secure in the relationship and trust me.
However when he got home he mentioned a few folks that he got numbers from. None female. We don’t have a home phone, but live together, and use eachothers cells from time to time. I grabbed his to call my cousin about a week ago and there was several numbers that I didnt know. And some incalls from those numbers that he never mentioned from the same area code as the town we went to treatment in. The two that worry me are Milisa, and ! entries.
I offhandedly mentioned last night what someone had said to me while there. My boydfriend said oh I know her she was outpaitent while I was in there. I said I wonder who else was there when I was there that was still there when you got in. I mentioned this girl I didnt like. Then he said well that cant be the same Milisa. He then spoke of her in glowing terms, said that they sat around and talked about a lot of shit the whole time he was there, and that she was his little buddy. And that she was one of two that he wanted to call. ….. he Never mentioned her and hes been home for over a month.
Infact I do even remember this girl. She came right before I left… and in my opinion she reminds me of a better more anorexic version of me…
that’s even more disconcerting. She’s pale, long red hair, very nice and very quiet, just like me. Blue eyes and all… Shes just even younger, even prettier and stick thin. I am thin but I have curves. He once told me, Well I always used to date anorexic looking women thats what i like but then I realized i didnt want to be with someone who was hurting themselves or killing themselves….but I used to exclusivly date scrawney girls.
So i know he finds her both easy to talk to. “buddy”, he cares enough to want to call her, I know he finds her attractive (fearfully more than he does me], and he never mentioned her… Im guessing because he feels guilty for feeling something for her… or worst case senario he has far more to hide than just scoping out another option….
Further now I am even more worried about the entry titled !
Every other entry has a name of some kind… why title it that unless he knows I use his phone occasionally and didn’t want me to see the name.
Does something seem fishy in all of this or am I just paranoid
what should i do if it does seem like a red flag
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I’m always worrying that one thing I do will lead to losing my parents or to hurting them (I literally live in paranoia of this). I was raised to be a good liar and to lie to everyone (not intentionally, but I just knew that being unhappy was selfish and since I was depressed as a child I knew to become a faker). I guess that paved the way for the day when an eating disorder would take over my life, because I knew that I could hide my food the way I do my true emotions and that I could just lie about eating. It’s been years since that all took hold in my life and I thought I was spared from hurting my family and that my eating disorder was somehow content to ruin everything except for my family. I’m realizing now though that I was wrong. I’ve tried getting rid of my eating disorder, but it’s so much a part of me (even my thoughts unrelated to food are tainted by it). Now I see that what I thought was rock bottom was probably more of a middle period. I can’t seem to stop it, but in being unable to stop it I have to hurt my parents. They push food on me so often and I just want to say no. I’m scared though that they’ll never forgive me. I don’t blame my dad for his alcoholic outbursts or when he throws things when he’s mad, but while my parents can accept alcoholism or the illegal activities of my sibling (which he got in trouble for with the police already, so I don’t mean anything against them) my eating disorder would be the ultimate disappointment (I’m the one who they rely on, the one who never disobeys, the one who is still there loving them after they take their anger out on me, etc., and something as simple as saying no to food would earn me their hatred).
I just wish I could know that one day it would all be worth it and that maybe one day they’d understand and realize that it’s not an attack upon them and that I turned to my eating disorder because at first it helped me to keep on showing them how happy I was when they couldn’t help me when I asked them just once to do so.
Do you think some parents just can’t understand? Sometimes I read these articles or see eating disorder movies and ultimately the parents just want their child back, but that’s probably because parents who don’t understand don’t make for a story of love and support (I adore my parents, I just mean that they don’t udnerstand eating disorders- my mom would applaud me if she knew how long I can go without food and my dad would take it as a personal offense against the recipes he himself likes).
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You see, it’s her religion. She thinks enjoying drunkeness every once and awhile is alcoholism. Fine, great, so she never drinks, but she gets on my nerves. I don’t tell her I drink. I’m an adult and it’s none of her business, but the preaching and the drama like she’s some victim of an ‘addictive personality’ and a father with alcoholism is really annoying when it comes up. What should I do? I don’t feel I should have to live my adult life hiding the fact that I enjoy a drink now and then, but what?
The whole Jesus made wine and archeological evidence that the alcoholic beverages back then were not just grape juice with an insignificant amount of alcohol (like she claims) aka reason doesn’t work. What can I do so if I want a little rum in my coke I can? My father is the same way. He even supports her in her so called alcoholism!
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Okay, i’m really just looking for advice/someone that can sympathize. Actually, I just want to share my story with others. I’ve had enough of dealing with these emotions and it’s time i ask other people for advice. Anyways…
I experienced my first heartbreak around October 2009. It was messy, upsetting, but most painfully…expected. He broke my heart BUT we’re happily together now. Still. And i love him more than anything. I’m thinking some background info will be needed…
For starters, I’m 17. He’s a little less than a year younger, making him 16. I’m a senior in high school, he’s a junior. Age means nothing to me, for the record. So…
August, 2009. The month after my break up with my ex, who i dated for nearly nine months; i called this relationship off so no, i was not hurting. Anyways, i got really close to one of my cousin’s friends after that. I’ve always known him but we never really talked or spent time together, until this summer. We became best friends. Yes, I fell for my best friend. Cliche, I know but hey, love is love. Well, he had a significant problem with drugs. Me being the smart, good, rule-following, straight a, school girl, he was definitely not the one for me. But i fell for him anyways. So, we were best friends. We mutually agreed that we liked each other and we wanted to have a future together. I refused to date him until he got his life under control, meaning started thinking more rationally, cut down the drug usage and opted to get better grades. He did so…or so I thought. I found out he was hiding a lot of things from me throughout all of September, but i forgave him, as that’s what i always do. Anyways, he wanted to date me. Really badly. And i wanted to be with him, but his drug problems had not yet been overcome, he still needed to get help, my friends hated him, and my family didn’t approve. But i continued to help him and fall for him more and more, because i was the only one who actually succeeded in becoming super close to him and helping him with his problems. So no matter what, whether we dated or not, I was stuck with him…but in a good way. So he’d promise he’d wait for me no matter how long it took. His parents (who i was close with because i knew them for quite a while…they’re family friends as well) continually asked me to help straighten him out and to not give up, to do all i could to improve his rebellious life….but they didn’t know about the drugs. Soon though, they found out…say, early October? I kind of helped them find out…but he ended up getting help and whatnot, going to rehab and counseling. He’s been clean for five months and he’s improved his life tremendously. He tells me that he’s finally happy.
So, whilst all this was going on, he started talking to this other girl. We’ll call her Jane for the sake of the story. I didn’t know that our mutual “i only like you and i don’t need anyone else” was completely one sided. Thank you, deception. So, he started texting and talking to, even hanging out, with Jane without me knowing for a couple weeks. He had me completely fooled. So, one day while i was at work, a Sunday, he texted me, “I don’t think we should do this anymore.” Of course i responded with, “Do what?!” Meaning he didn’t think that we should try to be more than we were, because dating clearly wasn’t going to work. That he didn’t want to be with me anymore and that he was done waiting around for me. And yeah…i got super upset. Then later, after work, I just asked him if there was someone else. He said yes, and he just “wanted to see if there was anything there.” Worst reason ever. We fought for two solid days, said some terribly nasty things to each other. He said some things that i will never forget and i said things that i completely regret. But still. He had promised me I was worth the wait NO MATTER WHAT. At that point, everything was a lie to me. I couldn’t trust him, and I wanted nothing to do with him. But i couldn’t let go. So i cried for three days, wrote one final note telling him it was either me (the girl who devoted three months of her life, saved you from numerous situations, picked you up completely messed up downtown at one am, helped you through so much, stopped you from killing yourself, took on so much stress for you, etc.) or Jane, the freshmen who doesn’t even know the real you. It was an upsetting, tough, strenuous battle, but he realized that there was nothing there with her. They dated (for three days) and he said that all he could think about was me. When they hugged, it was me. He didn’t kiss her because my face would pop into his head. So he broke it off, but originally wasn’t going to because he “didn’t want to hurt an innocent girl.” I don’t know if he ever realized that he hurt me, an innocent girl. He originally told me he understood the whole situation and that i was worth everything. Believe me, i felt worthless after that move he made with Jane. He said he’d still be my friend while he was w
he was with her. But i cried and cried, and explained that it was either NO contact at all, or me be the only girl he loved. I couldn’t just be friends with him. It never would’ve worked and never would’ve been the same. The feelings would always be there and just a friendship would create false hope.
Anyway, he came back to me. We worked things out. We eventually started dating like we knew was going to happen all along. I’m still with him and it’s been a few months since the incident. And we’re happy, we love each other, we know everything about each other and I know the real him, just like he knows the real me. But Jane, i see her all the time. It’s like she haunts me. And then all my emotions come flooding back and i have to hide them. But right now, i’ve had enough and i just need to share my story. Because telling him does nothing but makes him feel bad, but i just need a way to cope.
Sorryy that was super long, but when I write, I write a lot. Thank you for reading and I appreciate anything anyone has to say :) if you have any questions, i’ll add them in and answer them if you’re confused. Oh, and if you need advice, i’m pretty good at giving it haha. thank youuuu.
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