Confidential Drug Rehabilitation

Family fights and disowning family?
I am 52 and had a step mother since I was 10. My mother died when I was 4. My father and step mother had a daughter, my sister,. For years it has always been everything for my sister. My Dad is a sap, and lets my step mother belittle him. I was told she isn’t comming for Christmas eve this year, since she is having her niece and nephew and a bunch of her side, on Christmas Day. She says she can’t come by me at night for a couple of hours to see my kids, Dads grandkids. Who my kids can’t see them on Christmas. My sister now can’t come either becasue she lied about her kids doing plays at church, which the time she stated is not true, since I checked with the church. We have had a big blow up and my sister has emailed me stating I always feel like a blacksheep and doesn’t see me ever being treated badly. Which we are 15 years apart and she wouldn’t have a clue except what I have told her. I am tired of the deception and being treated badly. I want to disown all of them and havn’t talked in a month, not like they are trying any attempt. My Dad doesn’t stick up for me and is wishy washy. It would hurt a little to not talk to him, but I can’t stand all the stress anymore. Has anyone ever disowned their family. It took me having a big blow up to have Christmas eve over the years, becasue they used to do their own thing and open present without us and my kids. When they use to come Christmas eve they still didn’t open presents between my sister and her family with us. Like a big secret what they got them. Most likely they are having their own thing again.
2 weeks ago

FOLLOW UP 12/26

Dad had a stroke since this. Better now. Was sivil in hospital with stepmom and sister. Saw my Dad on christmas at rehab. Stepma sill having her own thing didn’t come. Havn’t talked to her again in a week. I tried talking to dad. He says they say things and I say things and he is in the middle. Same old thing. I was told my stepmom said to quit acting immature. That she will go on and forget all about this. I don’t want to go on becasue it will happen again. She doesn’t want to talk about it or my Dad. I know he could have another stroke and hopefully they would call me next time, but I can’t deal with this. Am I wrong? I still want to say I’m done with them and go on and try to talk to my Dad when I think she is not home.

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I am 18 yrs old. I go back and forth between my mom and grandma’s house. I have been at my grandma’s house for 5 months now, with my mom only visiting on Friday’s and Saturday’s.
The Friday that just past, I found something I wasn’t mean to find. I was in my grandma’s closet looking for her binoculars so I could see the alligator across the street better. While looking I found a big bottle of Absolute Vodka in my grandma’s closet, along with seltzer. I asked my mom if my grandma was drinking again, and she ignored me. She informed me that my grandma was in rehab for drinking 2 other times. I told them I was going to say something, and they told me not to.
The Sunday that just past, I made up my mind and said something to her. I had to because I couldn’t stop crying. I asked her why, and she told me. I told her I needed her to stop because I love her more than anyone else in this world, and I don’t want her to drink herself to the hospital again. She has diabetes, and recently had to get her gal bladder removed. She has stopped testing her blood sugar level. When I told my mom why my grandma is drinking, my mom said it was just an excuse. I feel like my mom is using my grandma. I told them I wasn’t going to just sit back and watch my grandma destroy herself! I would rather have my grandma mad at me, than dead. She drank 2 big bottles of absolute vodka in one night!!!!!! Then went out for more.
After confronting my grandma she and I cried. We held each other almost all night. Her and I are also best friends. My grandma said she can’t go to rehab or AA meetings or her husband will divorce her. They have been married since they were 25 yrs old, and they are now 57.
I can’t stop crying. My grandma needs help. PLEASE! SOMEONE GIVE ME ADVICE! GIVING UP ON HER IS NOT AN OPTION FOR ME. I WILL GO TO THE END OF THIS WORLD AND BACK FOR HER.
Maybe a hotline where I can talk to someone and figure out what to do? How do I talk about it without someone in my family knowing? PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP. I WILL DO ANYTHING. NO NEGATIVE COMMENTS PLEASE. MY GRANDMA HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR ME; MORE THAN MY OWN MOTHER. NOW IT’S MY TURN TO BE THERE FOR HER.

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Do you think it’s fair that she ALREADY got her sentence reduced for good behavior? I think this whole thing is ridiculous. She should count her blessings that 45 days is all she got. I do think that maybe jail will bring her down to earth a bit and make her realize she is not ABOVE the law (which she clearly thought). Remember that tee-shirt she wore that said “I’m Paris Hilton and I can do whatever I want!”, that kinda sums it all up. I would suggest that maybe she should go to rehab instead but DEFINITELY NOT the ones for high profile clients like Promises. Your opinions?

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