Confidential Drug Rehabilitation

I started hanging out with this girl,who was a lesbian that i used to know and hung out together every evening ,then she spent the night a few times and we slept together”no sex causual petting though” .We would call each other every morning to tell each other good morning and have a great day,then after work we would talk then we would spend the evening doin what ever,having fun walking in the park ect. ect. then i fell in love ive told her my dark secrets and in turn some of her secrets I could tell her anything. I really miss her ! Shes locked up at this moment looking at prison maybe 3-5 for felony forgery.She got caught up with the wrong crowd an ex of mine who was strung out on meth and crack and i had just got the ex out of rehab 2 months ago. then everything went to hell!

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The other night, one of my best friends had a date with Cuervo… She wound up bawling her eyes out, telling me how sad she was about everything. I have known her for years and have never see her like this! I used to do the same thing, but instead I tended a little more aggressive.

I heard these kinds of behavior are signs that you’re really depressed, and hiding it. I have heard so many people say that your true, inner-self cannot be masked when you’re hammered. They say that for people who are depressed, and hiding how they feel inside to other people and/or denying something to themselves….it can be unleashed by alcohol, (or other drugs) I also heard these are common symptoms from people who have family members w/ alcoholism.

I agree, somewhat. In my opinion….alcohol is a depressant and that is what it can do to people, depress their feelings! But i don’t exactly think that means that you’re a depressed maniac inside.

Why are some ppl more prone to act like this?
PS….. The next day my friend said she it was just the booze talking. She gave me that line, of “anything she said she didn’t mean.” I am worried about her because I think that her bf is emotionally abusive. She can be an extremely open person, but she is also very good at masking her feelings. That night, She said a few things about him that worry me as I was already afraid of him before… But she told me the next day that nothing she said was true and not to worry about it.

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My best friend, her husband and their son are staying with me for now and her husband is an alcoholic. I didnt realize how bad he was until about two weeks after they moved in. I had put restrictions on his allowed alcohol but he constantly sneaks more into the house and hides it from me to keep me from fussing at him about it. I have tried talking to him and her about the fact that I dont like my children seeing him drink all the time or seeing him drunk almost every night but its not doing any good. Its to the point now that even my friends dont want to come over and visit because they dont like being around him. We have argued over the point of his drinking and he has even admited he has a problem but says he is not going to stop drinking for anyone. Now my husband says that I have to put my foot down and tell him he either stops or he has to leave. This close to christmas I hate to see anyone without a home, even someone with this kind of problem, but I cant deal with it anymore.
To clarify why i have to handle it, my husband works out of town and is rarely home, I allowed them into the home and its my responsibility to handle the situation. I just dont know how to tell my best friend her husband has to go. She has told him if he doesnt straighten up and he has to leave she wont be going with him because she will not have her son without a home because of his dads stupidity. He has lost and quit job after job and its because of his drinking they are in this situation. How do i talk to her without sounding crass or causing to much hurt? Do I go directly to him or just talk to her and let her deal with it? I am just so confused, I have never had to deal with this before and never thought I would have to.

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She has done this on many occasions, due to talking to boys her age that are basically suicidal and so they all end up cutting. I have tried to talk the mother into taking her phone away, taking the internet away, and the mother threatens it, but yet doesn’t go threw with it. I have also gave her advice to put her in a rehab for a few weeks to open her eyes. But she seems to just make excuses up the freaking wall. The mother is afraid it will make things worse, but I think it would help her more and see more positive outlook on life. She does not do drugs, she is disrespectful alot, cusses alot, always talking about wanting to get laid. Any advice on what to do or where to take this child what kind of rehab? I looked up depressed and she doesn’t really fit that profile. Any help would be great! Thanks

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When it comes to my best friend, I’m an open book. I’m able to tell him anything without fear of him judging me or telling my secrets to anyone. I trust him more than anyone, but with this, I’m not sure if I should tell him. I’m actually so very ashamed of cutting, I’ve only told one person in my life, who was an ex boyfriend in the past, but he doesn’t even matter anymore. I wish I could take it back, but it’s not a huge deal because I never see him or have any contact with him.

But anyway, I’ve been cutting for 3 years, and it’s not an addiction. I do it either once every few months or once a month, but the past two days I’ve done it both nights. I cut on my thighs and hip so that no one will ever suspect. I’m so ashamed of this, because of how it is viewed in society. I do it as a way to punish myself when I get really depressed or feel like I’ve failed, and gained weight. (I’m bulimic for two and a half years.) I’ve had a really rough past which includes my fathers alcoholism, his abusing my mother, him molesting me, and just other things unfortunate.

He knows pretty much everything about me, except the cutting. The cutting is not a problem, not an addiction, so I’m not sure if I should bring it up. I just want him to know I trust in him so much, but I feel like if I tell him he might think I tell him just too many things. Plus I wanted to keep just a secret for myself, but now I’m unsure… what do you think I should do?

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A friend lives in Spain and was recently diagnosed with Hepatitis A – he has an enlarged Liver and Spleen. After reading about Alcoholic Hepatitis, I am curious to know why this was not diagnosed, as I have been concerned about his drinking for a long time now and am worried the only reason that Hep A has been diagnosed over Alcoholic Hepatitis is because he hasn’t disclosed accurate information regarding his level of alcohol consumption… Or is it that blood tests can say categorically that Hep A is the cause?

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i don’t even know which rehab but i can narrow it down to a few in oregon. most likely the kind for teenagers with minor behavioral problems. my friend was taken away by force and we’ve had no way to contact him, it is EXTREMELY important that his family talks to him. i’m about to call every rehab that he’s likely to be at. what are some ways to get around the confidentiality issue, and what are some teen rehabs in oregon? anything at all helps. what should i do?

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