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She has wasted so much of here life, that now, it seems like she is in the same level as i am, and am 15. I dont know what to do anymore. I can trust her, anytime i do tell her a secret, or something personal, i open up to her, i forgive, and yet she basically tells me F*** you, and then i reget telling her anything, i can’t wotk on a realtionship with her because constantly giving me a reason not to even bother. Am stressed out, ive been depressed, and finally after 3 years am beginning to be happy again(after my grandmother death), but i just dont know how to deal wit her.

She is so revenge seekgin right now, especially with me. She says that i remind her of er and that am disrespectful, which i agree to an extent, but how much more am i suppoesed to deal with this?? I think 12 years howve been enough..

I even got a acs case because we got into a fight, were she went over the egde, and finally my school found out what she was doing..i swear i just want o run away at times…
Am doing pretty good, from what eeryone expects though..i get decent grades, have’nt had any boyfreinds, just 1, which was nothing..still a virgin, and has never, ever touch drugs…
i dont even know my dad..she does’nt even know

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Hello,
Well my wife and I have been having some problems getting along. She has kind of detached herself from me. We barely get through the day without a fight. She works as a bartender at night so she gets a couple days off a week and it is usually not consecutive or on the same days off that I have. Basicaly we don’t spend much time together. Out daughter is almost 4 years old and she adds to some of the stress on our relationship. We are usually with her at different times during the day. Recently in the last few months my wife has lost a lot of motivation to do any normal activities. She has continued to loose wieght without any exercise and has been making less money. She has started lieing to me after the fact that I told her I already knew the truth. She didn’t come home from work one night and said she was sleeping at a friends when she came home at 6 am after I had been out looking for her. It will never happen again. It did on Sunday. She was not where she said she would be. She didn’t come home with the food she promissed for our daughter and I. She came home all wasted and wanted to leave me. We talked and aggreed on counciling. On Tuesday she was to get off early and come home. I called her and she was on her way and then never showed I went to her work at 4 am and whe was not home. I called her again and she said she was on her way. She showed up an hour later and was wasted. She finally told me she has a problem with alcohol, Lortab, and Lieing. I am completly behind her if she needs help. I do not want to loose her but I can’t take the lies and sneaking around. What issue should be adressed first drugs or marraige. I am so sad now and I feel like I don’t have anyone to talk to about it besides her. I just feel like after all the times I had asked her about the personallity change and if she was on drugs or cheating she always says no. Can I ever trust her again. Please help I am a wreck like this.
I know how to use a phone book. I want to know what to deal with first the addiction or the relationship. If she can’t stay clean I cant’t stay with her.

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my spouse has horrible behavioral problems when he’s SOBER and not smoking pot. Has anyone experienced this? I know pot isn’t that dangerous a drug and I’ve never known anyone else besides him that’s become SO addicted that can’t function without it.

i’ve noticed a pattern when he runs out and can’t get it he gets angry and pops off easy to the point of physically harming me and becoming belligerent, paranoid, bullying–It’s like jekyll and hyde-ish. I don’t judge him but the more episodes of this the past few months, I’m realizing I don’t feel the same for him as I used to.

I find myself saving money and making future plans without him–I felt this way when I was growing up. My father was cool to me when he drank but when he was sober he was a tyrannical nutcase who abused me and I lost empathy for him–and ran away all the time until I finally met my husband he promised to protect me and he rescued me from this hellish environment. I never dreamed my husband would be like this. He’s not a bad person and it makes me sad because I feel like I’m losing him to a drug and I can’t stop it. He says things that he later regrets and he’s suspicious of the world, has a very jaded outlook like he expects people to be bad and try to get over on him so he has to project this tough guy facade and he says my sensitivity is weakness but I can’t help who I am.

I need to hear from others who have gone thru this–I never thought pot could cause such mental health issues and to be honest, I dream of being away from him and I’m actually happy when I don’t see him throughout the day. That’s a new feeling and it scares me
he keeps telling me “i dare you to leave me; you’ll never leave” so I wonder if all this is just testing my limits. maybe he wants to get dumped..

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my spouse has horrible behavioral problems when he’s SOBER and not smoking pot. Has anyone experienced this? I know pot isn’t that dangerous a drug and I’ve never known anyone else besides him that’s become SO addicted that can’t function without it.

i’ve noticed a pattern when he runs out and can’t get it he gets angry and pops off easy to the point of physically harming me and becoming belligerent, paranoid, bullying–It’s like jekyll and hyde-ish. I don’t judge him but the more episodes of this the past few months, I’m realizing I don’t feel the same for him as I used to.

I find myself saving money and making future plans without him–I felt this way when I was growing up. My father was cool to me when he drank but when he was sober he was a tyrannical nutcase who abused me and I lost empathy for him–and ran away all the time until I finally met my husband he promised to protect me and he rescued me from this hellish environment. I never dreamed my husband would be like this. He’s not a bad person and it makes me sad because I feel like I’m losing him to a drug and I can’t stop it. He says things that he later regrets and he’s suspicious of the world, has a very jaded outlook like he expects people to be bad and try to get over on him so he has to project this tough guy facade and he says my sensitivity is weakness but I can’t help who I am.

I need to hear from others who have gone thru this–I never thought pot could cause such mental health issues and to be honest, I dream of being away from him and I’m actually happy when I don’t see him throughout the day. That’s a new feeling and it scares me
he keeps telling me “i dare you to leave me; you’ll never leave” so I wonder if all this is just testing my limits. maybe he wants to get dumped..

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Hi people, i am having serious issues gaining control of my life. I am in my late 20ties and i am still not able to control my self-defeating behaviors. I went through a very depressing phase in my mid twenties and developed a internet and computer gaming addiction. Whenever it gets hard at work i simply cannot motivate myself to get things done. This lack of “drive” and control in my life have made me miss a lot of good chances to advance in my career and in my personal life. If things get nasty i basically flee into the internet or the gaming worlds without thinking of the consequences (unfinished work, lack of sleep, out of touch with friends and family). I really like to get out of this and get my life back on track, but i don’t know how. I red self-help books and they did help, but the effect was only temporary. I have also searched for self-help groups in my vicinity but there are none. People always tell me you have to change the way you live your life, but this ‘insight’ did not help since no one was able to tell me how i can pull this off. I wonder if anyone of you went through something similar and can share his/her experience with me.

Best regards,

Jason.

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If you have been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder, and also have great difficulty sleeping … do you think the meds cause more damage to your body, or do you think by not taking the meds to reduce anxiety and help your body sleep, that the stress would cause more harm to the body in the long run?

Does it make more sense to get a good night’s sleep and feel healthy, rather than irritable and unable to concentrate?

Aside from the dangers of addiction to meds of course, what do you think is more healthy? With or without meds?

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As a child, like many children, I dealt with an alcoholic, borderline abusive parent. I’ve come to terms with this as an adult, with relatively few emotional scars. I don’t drink at all, and I never have.
My problem is that I don’t like it when people close to me drink, and when my boyfriend drinks, I get absolutely crazy. I know he isn’t an alcoholic, and he almost never gets ‘drunk’ (and never has around me), but I see him as a protector, and it terrifies me when he drinks.
I know he loves me, and would stop if I asked him. However, I don’t want my mental problems to affect his life; I want to fix my mental problems. We’ve been together for a while now, and I trust him more than my own kin, so it’s not as though he has a short fuse or I’m afraid he’s hiding his alcoholism from me.

Has anyone dealt with a similar issue with people they love who was not an alcoholic drinking? How do you deal? Should I try counseling? I’m not sure about Al-anon, since I don’t believe drinking is a disease. Any suggestions?

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I know I’m addicted to food. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to cope with it without seeing a specialist.

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