Married 7years, marriage not consumated because he had a problem that he said would get better. Viagra didn’t work. It never did. Turns out he was diagnosed with heart failure due to a life time of alcoholism. He knew he couldn’t “get it up” when he married me but kept it a secret. I’m 50 and he’s 60. I’ve thought of an extra marital affair but my conscious bothers me. I still feel the need for “it”, but there is no physical contact between us (separate beds) as he has no libido. Toys don’t do it for me and I feel trapped and very depressed. It is an embarrasing subject and he refuses to communicate about it. How many marriages survive like this? Am I too old to go on? I need a hug. Anyone in the same boat? Nevertheless I stay. How can one leave an ill partner…for better or worse right? I feel like I’m already dead and too dumb to drop. At this point I have no sexual feelings for him and don’t think I ever will again. He refuses to have an “open” relationship. :(
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