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Just so you are aware off the bat, this girl has some major psychological problems she’s trying to deal with. In fact, she attempted suicide recently. This might not even the best place to ask about such a serious situation, but I’m gathering all the input I can. I will be talking to a counselor in-person soon about this same story.

She’s very unstable and lacks willpower. She started drinking in her teens and became an addict. She has been attending AA for about six months, stopped drinking for a while but got right back into it because she would hang out at bars surrounded by alcohol. She also did various drugs in college, mostly by IV, though tells me she hasn’t been using them for two years. I don’t want to be too trusting … I don’t know for sure that she’s been off drugs since.

We were best of friends at a very young age. We’ve reunited online after losing contact many years ago when her family moved away (she still lives far away, we are in communication via phone and online). Very recently she had told me about how good I made her feel and both of us have a lot of fun talking to each other. She wanted to move forward into a long-distance relationship. I’ve been willing to give it a chance, and at the same time been aware of the problems she’s had and continues to deal with.

Back to the suicide … she never told me she was going to. In fact my conversation with her the same day she attempted it, she was laughing while I was on the phone with her. It was a rather upbeat, positive conversation and never saw a suicide attempt coming that same day. I believe her reasoning has to do with how she recently lost her job that she just got. She lost it because she was in a fight with her boss’s daughter (who works at the same place) a few days beforehand. The fight happened because (surprise) they were drunk.

I don’t approve of the drinking whatsoever, or the drugs she once used, or any of the trouble she gets into. I would love to see this relationship work out without jeopardizing my own life. She can be a fun, sweet girl around me and when she isn’t tempted to drink.

Chances are half the reason she wanted this relationship is because I’m the kind of guy that would lead someone into a “clean” lifestyle. I don’t drink at all. I never tried drugs. I never picked a fight with anyone and am always optimistic. I’m afraid she wanted this relationship as an escape route from her current life.

How do I explain to her my thoughts on her terrible habits? Should I just go back to just staying as friends with her while she possibly lives single for the rest of her life (or ends up with some whack-job of a guy)?

Thanks, and sorry for the wordy question. :)

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Just so you are aware off the bat, this girl has some major psychological problems she’s trying to deal with. In fact, she attempted suicide recently. This might not even the best place to ask about such a serious situation, but I’m gathering all the input I can. I will be talking to a counselor in-person soon about this same story.

She’s very unstable and lacks willpower. She started drinking in her teens and became an addict. She has been attending AA for about six months, stopped drinking for a while but got right back into it because she would hang out at bars surrounded by alcohol. She also did various drugs in college, mostly by IV, though tells me she hasn’t been using them for two years. I don’t want to be too trusting … I don’t know for sure that she’s been off drugs since.

We were best of friends at a very young age. We’ve reunited online after losing contact many years ago when her family moved away (she still lives far away, we are in communication via phone and online). Very recently she had told me about how good I made her feel and both of us have a lot of fun talking to each other. She wanted to move forward into a long-distance relationship. I’ve been willing to give it a chance, and at the same time been aware of the problems she’s had and continues to deal with.

Back to the suicide … she never told me she was going to. In fact my conversation with her the same day she attempted it, she was laughing while I was on the phone with her. It was a rather upbeat, positive conversation and never saw a suicide attempt coming that same day. I believe her reasoning has to do with how she recently lost her job that she just got. She lost it because she was in a fight with her boss’s daughter (who works at the same place) a few days beforehand. The fight happened because (surprise) they were drunk.

I don’t approve of the drinking whatsoever, or the drugs she once used, or any of the trouble she gets into. I would love to see this relationship work out without jeopardizing my own life. She can be a fun, sweet girl around me and when she isn’t tempted to drink.

Chances are half the reason she wanted this relationship is because I’m the kind of guy that would lead someone into a “clean” lifestyle. I don’t drink at all. I never tried drugs. I never picked a fight with anyone and am always optimistic. I’m afraid she wanted this relationship as an escape route from her current life.

How do I explain to her my thoughts on her terrible habits? Should I just go back to just staying as friends with her while she possibly lives single for the rest of her life (or ends up with some whack-job of a guy)?

Thanks, and sorry for the wordy question. :)

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I started hanging out with this girl,who was a lesbian that i used to know and hung out together every evening ,then she spent the night a few times and we slept together”no sex causual petting though” .We would call each other every morning to tell each other good morning and have a great day,then after work we would talk then we would spend the evening doin what ever,having fun walking in the park ect. ect. then i fell in love ive told her my dark secrets and in turn some of her secrets I could tell her anything. I really miss her ! Shes locked up at this moment looking at prison maybe 3-5 for felony forgery.She got caught up with the wrong crowd an ex of mine who was strung out on meth and crack and i had just got the ex out of rehab 2 months ago. then everything went to hell!

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How can a muslim , living in a world full of lust and materialistic values be able to spread out the truth , that is Islam. In todays world whatever Islam prohibits exclusively , the media plays its role in glorifying it, as much as they can. They represent the worst of sins to be something that people should not only accept but follow (despite their negative consequences, that are never mentioned). for example:
1)alcoholism is the root of many evils, nobody can deny its worse side effects. But everybody seems to overlook all of its social, biological, mental and other impacts it has created over the past few decades.
2)Haya or modesty is not to be found anywhere on any channel. Its considered modern and open minded to let women decide ,what to wear and how much to cover up their bodies, this leaves us with the world of today where individuals are coerced subliminally to think of sex and other such vices, without ever considering its consequences.
3)Music : it feels really sad to see people really indulging themselves into such worldly activities.
It is recent study that shows how subliminal messages can be hidden in the music tracks that influence the brain and cause an individual to even kill people.(I refer to the Hashemsfilms initial episodes)
4)interest based economic system has finally played its well thought out role of destabilizing the whole American economy. Other countries that have already fallen prey to this heinous form of money management include virtually all nations of the world that are dependent on the money of the World Bank to maintain their economic survival.
5)Jihad is now considered to be the most misrepresented word . It means literally “to struggle in the way of Allah”, but the western media has succeeded to make it synonymous with the oftly stated term “Holy war”. Thus supporting their baseless claim that Islam is THE root cause of all the frustrations occurring all over the world.(which is obviously furthest from the truth)
6)the western media tries its very best to support and propagate baseless claims regarding Islam.some of them being:
i- Islam was spread at the point of a sword, Indonesia the state with the highest muslim population in the world , easily denies this proposterous claim.
ii- the martyr in islam would be awarded with 72 virgins. There is no mention of such claim in the whole of the Quran or the Books of Hadith (sayings of the prophet SAW )
iii- The women in islam are not given equal rights, hence they are more like slaves to the muslim men.
As a rebuttle i ask the western people to take a look at their national statistics in rape, illegitimate sex, premarital births and incest , and then compare their figuresto all the muslim nations of the world. Also the western media has succeeded in making women nothing more then good looding barbie dolls that are the prize of some one who follows the lifestyle they propogate.
and the list goes on and on and on.

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I am a smoker who desperately wants to be done with the whole addiction… but cold turkey is sooo hard for me. I can go 3 days without smoking, but I haven’t been able to make a week. Does anyone know the best method to use? Nicotrol, Nicoret, etc.
What really works?

No smart-azz remarks, please!!

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This is for my project – attempt to write a book before I’m 18. It’s half-serious, since no publisher will take me seriously as an author, but I can always try!

Here’s my problem. I need a name for my character, but I’m kinda stuck for a name that really fits. Here’s her profile! I’ll refer to her as ‘character’.

Character is from a wealthy german family, the Reidenburgs. She lived in Germany for the first 10 years of her life, but went to an exclusive private school and lived a very sheltered lifestyle, and had little contact with other kids her age from outside of her school. She has one sister, Sabine, who is two years older than her. Character has long, unstyled white-blonde hair, with the baby-fineness that usually only toddlers have. Her eyes are disproportionately big for her face, and a very pale blue. She is of medium height, and has no curves. She’s a generally timid person, who tries to keep people at a distance. She’s intelligent, but doesn’t want to attract too much attention to herself. Her mother was from a different family, and had a shifty background. She could also read minds, which she passed on to Character. Not in a creepy, Edward Cullen I-know-all-your-deepest-thoughts way, more an unpredictable, uncomfortable pain that makes her ‘see’ the emotions of other people, and their thoughts if they’re thinking it particularly hard. Sabine also shares this curse. Character is very prone to depression. After her parents die when she is 11, she is shipped off to an exclusive private school and rehab centre for teenagers by her aunt Miriam.

And that’s basically an overview of her character. Here are the names:

Evelin Reidenburg
Geneva Reidenburg
Katja Reidenburg
Lorelei Reidenburg

Suggest other names if you want, provided they’re of german origin!

Thanks :3

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i need to tell him that i know he has been watching porn literally constantly all day long. im afraid if i ask him about it, he is going to either freak out that ive been checking his history on his comp, or make up some excuse or SOMETHING. hes good at wiggling his way out of situations and turning the focus onto something that ive done in the past to upset him, then we end up arguing about that instead of what he has done!
ok people, i love porn too. but my bf is watching it secretly even when im showering right after we have sex. ive asked to watch it with him, and he gets quiet and embarressed and continues to deny he watches it. trust me, all i wanna know is how to confront him about how i know this is starting to become a problem. he doesnt even want to fuck me as much anymore due to this.
ALSO. im so much more adventourous in bed than he is. he likes it one way, and gets it over quickly, i like it every way and every day! like i said, i just need a way to confront him.
ALSO. im so much more adventourous in bed than he is. he likes it one way, and gets it over quickly, i like it every way and every day! like i said, i just need a way to confront him.
for everyone saying i should watch porn with him, he says he doesnt want to watch porn, he doesnt need porn, and got really embarressed when i said we should watch it one day together. that is not going to work. ugh i dunno, i guess i need to just break up with him or something, thank you everyonee.

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When it comes to my best friend, I’m an open book. I’m able to tell him anything without fear of him judging me or telling my secrets to anyone. I trust him more than anyone, but with this, I’m not sure if I should tell him. I’m actually so very ashamed of cutting, I’ve only told one person in my life, who was an ex boyfriend in the past, but he doesn’t even matter anymore. I wish I could take it back, but it’s not a huge deal because I never see him or have any contact with him.

But anyway, I’ve been cutting for 3 years, and it’s not an addiction. I do it either once every few months or once a month, but the past two days I’ve done it both nights. I cut on my thighs and hip so that no one will ever suspect. I’m so ashamed of this, because of how it is viewed in society. I do it as a way to punish myself when I get really depressed or feel like I’ve failed, and gained weight. (I’m bulimic for two and a half years.) I’ve had a really rough past which includes my fathers alcoholism, his abusing my mother, him molesting me, and just other things unfortunate.

He knows pretty much everything about me, except the cutting. The cutting is not a problem, not an addiction, so I’m not sure if I should bring it up. I just want him to know I trust in him so much, but I feel like if I tell him he might think I tell him just too many things. Plus I wanted to keep just a secret for myself, but now I’m unsure… what do you think I should do?

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(a) Curbs on what he called a “broken”death penalty system
(b) A measure to expunge some criminal records and give job grants to ex-cons.
(c) Tougher handgun controls.
(d) A vote against making gang members eligible for the death penalty if they kill someone to hel their gang.
(e) Opposition to a bill requiring juveniles to be prosecuted as adults for firing a gun at or near a school.
At the federal level Obama would
(a) Repeal “unfair” mandatory sentences for crack convictions.
(b) provide drug dounseling instead of jail time for some abusers
(c) Rehink criminal penalties for pot.
(d) Ban profiling by federal law enforcement, even if it helps catch violent criminals including terrorists.
(e) Strengthen hate-crime laws and beef up civil rights enforcement against police chiefs who profile.
(f) Provide job training, drug rehab and counseling for ex cons.
“Re-dnfranchise” felons denied the right to vote
In addition he vows to repeal the Patriot Act.

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This boy has told me his miserable life story.

His father is alcoholism. His family can’t stop the father of drinking bcuz they are afraid of telling him to do so.. however, they tried to stop him and hide the bottles but the result was awful.

the father had many accidents that he was about to die!! and his family are suffering his aggressiveness when he is drunk. please help him to get a solution to force or convince his father to stop drinking. thanks

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