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365 days with baby savage hes going to do 100 videos every day of a blog this will be footage of him at home in the streets going to the club for shows networking with major artist as well as local artist promoteing in the streets on his grind for his new album november 16 2011 thats due to drop …as well as his new dvd thats droppin in june and his new mixtape that dropping march 17 titled la-tex his album will be titled baby savage which is his rap name also a street name that was given to him in his younger days…… (BABY SAVAGE A DECADE OF DOPE DECEPTION AND DESTRUCTION) It tells the true story of me (BABY SAVAGE) Originally from Baton Rouge Louisiana I moved to Mansfield La. at the age of 14 and began selling drugs in a area known as the hood. Where i was intiated in a local gang following that close friend taught me about crack cocaine and i jumped off the porch and made over 2000 dollars in less than a week. Years later down the line i became one of the biggest drug dealers around making over 150000 dollars a year until long time friend now turned confidential informant started working for the task force and helped them bring me down in a 18 month investigation and prosecution that ultimately lead to my downfall and incarceration in prison. While in prison i was shipped to several different facilities, because of my aggressive nature, and accusations that i was running drugs from inside of prison. After being in solitude for 7 months for bad behavior i was …

365 days with baby savage hes going to do 100 videos every day of a blog this will be footage of him at home in the streets going to the club for shows networking with major artist as well as local artist promoteing in the streets on his grind for his new album november 16 2011 thats due to drop …as well as his new dvd thats droppin in june and his new mixtape that dropping march 17 titled la-tex his album will be titled baby savage which is his rap name also a street name that was given to him in his younger days…… (BABY SAVAGE A DECADE OF DOPE DECEPTION AND DESTRUCTION) It tells the true story of me (BABY SAVAGE) Originally from Baton Rouge Louisiana I moved to Mansfield La. at the age of 14 and began selling drugs in a area known as the hood. Where i was intiated in a local gang following that close friend taught me about crack cocaine and i jumped off the porch and made over 2000 dollars in less than a week. Years later down the line i became one of the biggest drug dealers around making over 150000 dollars a year until long time friend now turned confidential informant started working for the task force and helped them bring me down in a 18 month investigation and prosecution that ultimately lead to my downfall and incarceration in prison. While in prison i was shipped to several different facilities, because of my aggressive nature, and accusations that i was running drugs from inside of prison. After being in solitude for 7 months for bad behavior i was …
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Question by ncbc4evr: Big Baby- attempt labor and delivery or a scheuled c-section?
I am 36 weeks pregnant, and my doctor is guessing that my baby is already 8 1/2 pounds. I have an ultrasound scheduled for next week to get a better picture of our baby and to “discuss options”. My mom has delivered two big babies and my husband had very big shoulders when he was a baby ( his mom had to have an emergency c-section with him because he got stuck at the shoulders). I know that babies getting stuck at the shoulders can cause a lot of problems when going through labor and delivery. My biggest hang-up with the c-section is that I won’t be able to hold my baby right away, along with the recovery. My body doesn’t handle narcotics well at all. Should I try to go through labor and see what happens, or just go with the c-section?? And I know if I try labor and end up needing a c-section anyway I would have wished I just went with the c-section in the first place…any thoughts would be helpful!!

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Answer by LAM
Even if I had a smaller baby, I’d still want a c-section.

I’d seriously talk with your doctor about the concerns listed ahead of time. Even if it’s just a phone call instead of a visist. Also, check with some reputable online sources where they discuss the effects of a C-section on the body. Good luck with your delivery, and congratulations on your little one!

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365 days with baby savage hes going to do 100 videos every day of a blog this will be footage of him at home in the streets going to the club for shows networking with major artist as well as local artist promoteing in the streets on his grind for his new album november 16 2011 thats due to drop …as well as his new dvd thats droppin in june and his new mixtape that dropping march 17 titled la-tex his album will be titled baby savage which is his rap name also a street name that was given to him in his younger days…… (BABY SAVAGE A DECADE OF DOPE DECEPTION AND DESTRUCTION) It tells the true story of me (BABY SAVAGE) Originally from Baton Rouge Louisiana I moved to Mansfield La. at the age of 14 and began selling drugs in a area known as the hood. Where i was intiated in a local gang following that close friend taught me about crack cocaine and i jumped off the porch and made over 2000 dollars in less than a week. Years later down the line i became one of the biggest drug dealers around making over 150000 dollars a year until long time friend now turned confidential informant started working for the task force and helped them bring me down in a 18 month investigation and prosecution that ultimately lead to my downfall and incarceration in prison. While in prison i was shipped to several different facilities, because of my aggressive nature, and accusations that i was running drugs from inside of prison. After being in solitude for 7 months for bad behavior i was …
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365 days with baby savage hes going to do 100 videos every day of a blog this will be footage of him at home in the streets going to the club for shows networking with major artist as well as local artist promoteing in the streets on his grind for his new album november 16 2011 thats due to drop …as well as his new dvd thats droppin in june and his new mixtape that dropping march 17 titled la-tex his album will be titled baby savage which is his rap name also a street name that was given to him in his younger days…… (BABY SAVAGE A DECADE OF DOPE DECEPTION AND DESTRUCTION) It tells the true story of me (BABY SAVAGE) Originally from Baton Rouge Louisiana I moved to Mansfield La. at the age of 14 and began selling drugs in a area known as the hood. Where i was intiated in a local gang following that close friend taught me about crack cocaine and i jumped off the porch and made over 2000 dollars in less than a week. Years later down the line i became one of the biggest drug dealers around making over 150000 dollars a year until long time friend now turned confidential informant started working for the task force and helped them bring me down in a 18 month investigation and prosecution that ultimately lead to my downfall and incarceration in prison. While in prison i was shipped to several different facilities, because of my aggressive nature, and accusations that i was running drugs from inside of prison. After being in solitude for 7 months for bad behavior i was …

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Question by ncbc4evr: Big Baby- attempt labor and delivery or a scheuled c-section?
I am 36 weeks pregnant, and my doctor is guessing that my baby is already 8 1/2 pounds. I have an ultrasound scheduled for next week to get a better picture of our baby and to “discuss options”. My mom has delivered two big babies and my husband had very big shoulders when he was a baby ( his mom had to have an emergency c-section with him because he got stuck at the shoulders). I know that babies getting stuck at the shoulders can cause a lot of problems when going through labor and delivery. My biggest hang-up with the c-section is that I won’t be able to hold my baby right away, along with the recovery. My body doesn’t handle narcotics well at all. Should I try to go through labor and see what happens, or just go with the c-section?? And I know if I try labor and end up needing a c-section anyway I would have wished I just went with the c-section in the first place…any thoughts would be helpful!!

Best answer:

Answer by LAM
Even if I had a smaller baby, I’d still want a c-section.

I’d seriously talk with your doctor about the concerns listed ahead of time. Even if it’s just a phone call instead of a visist. Also, check with some reputable online sources where they discuss the effects of a C-section on the body. Good luck with your delivery, and congratulations on your little one!

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Our marriage was fine until we had a child. Now we have a 15 month old and I want to vomit every time I see my wife. I knew she was irresponsible and I couldn’t count on her for anything important but it is amazing how this doesn’t matter when you are childless and have independence and careers. Now we have a child. I grew up but she hasn’t changed. I still can’t count on her for anything. She never shows up on time and I get all the long hours with our daughter. I don’t trust her with anything. She leaves the window open so our daughter can climb out and fall 5 stories. She leaves razor sharp knives on the counter with the handle hanging over. She leaves hot coffee on the table on a place-mat with the edge of the mat hanging over. I come home and my daughter is playing alone in the hallway with a plastic bag trying to pull it over her head. I warn her about these things over and over and she looks at me like I am a pain in the ass. I sacrificed my career because she is useless and can’t be counted on to split duties. She simply doesn’t do her housework. Before the kid I just said oh who cares. Now the house needs to be in order and she is a total idiot. I explained to her there are 4 food groups. I explained to her that children need at least one well balanced meal a day. She serves cheese dip and grapes for dinner and pretends to not understand over and over and over and over and over. And this is the one time a month she prepares food. What is this behavior? I don’t get it. It is like an extreme resistance technique. She has a masters degree and is working on her PhD! She isn’t a dunce. How is it that people can go from childless to parent without a shift in consciousness? I don’t know what to do. I am not getting divorced because my daughter needs a healthy family and I sure as hell am not leaving her with my wife. Here is my question? Something drastic needs to be done. We need a little more than a chore chart here. She needs a totally new brain. A Mom’s brain. Anyone got an extra? Seriously though I am freaking out. I have tried everything. If it isn’t drastic believe me I have tried it. She needs some serious force. She needs to feel the pressure. Like some kind of rehab or that thing where you show up and your house is full of people who tell you to sit down–an intervention. I have been through 1 1/2 years of hell. I am out of ideas! Imagine trying to convince someone for a week that plastic bags and babies don’t mix and they finally agree but then you figure out they were just blowing smoke up your rear and they don’t believe you. This lady has some weird flaw. If there are any geniuses out there who know what I am talking about please show me the light. For those of you who tell me that I should have realized this before I might mention that in most cases people change when they have a kid. I expected her to change. Hell, I did. What is happening?

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My husband and I are married for 3 years now. I’ve been wanting so bad since the very first day of our marriage to get pregnant and have a healthy baby. We tried so hard and nothing seemed to work. the whole process of trying every month seemed like and endless roller coaster to me. I cried allot every time I got my period. and felt more and more devastated and depressed. It hurts so bad. every time I see a pregnant woman or hear that a friend or a relative is pregnant or even see parent with their children I cry and feel burnt from the inside. I became isolated. This thing got me so depressed. My husband and I finally decided to go for IVF. I sold my car so that we can pay for the IVF treatment and started with the protocol. and just when I did I found out that my husband is a heroin addict. It was like spilling acid on an unhealed wound. I felt like the whole world’s doors are shut away from me. I grieved but decided to postpone the IVF treatment and stop the medications. My husband promised to stop but never did. I begged him to get into a rehab center but he refused saying that he can quit when he wants to without the need of a rehab. I tried everything with him but nothing seemed to work with him. I just don’t know what to do. Some say that maybe if I do get pregnant and have a kid then he will change and feel more responsible but I dont know if that would work? I want a child so bad though and I just sit everyday crying for hours just wishing I had a child.. Should I listen to my instincts and proceed with IVF or should I wait until my husband sobers up? Has anyone been through this or know anyone who’s veen through the same thing? could it be that the joy of a having a baby will make my husband be a more responsible person and takes a whole new step into changing himself into a better person?? not that he’s a bad person now, he’s a very loving husband and treats me so well but I really dont know why he go himself into what he’s in in the first place?

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both of us been tested for all STD’s and STI’s after all its an IVF protocol to be tested befor going for IVF. My husband does not use needles he just smokes and snorts heroin

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I have a family member that did drugs while she was pregnant (I think everything from drinking to smoking cigs to meth to cocaine…you name it). Her baby is now 7 weeks old and always has a blank “no ones home” look in her eyes. I thought it was due to to the drugs all those months but now I’m wondering if it could be from neglect. The baby hasn’t gained a lot of weight in 7 weeks due to neglect by the mother. She is strung out and don’t eat so she don’t think to feed the baby either. DSS is investigating her (this is the 3rd time she’s been investigated, once for each of her children: an 8 yr old, a baby who died at 3 months, and now this one). Anyway, I’m wondering if DSS does do something about the neglect, can the effects of whatever is going on with the baby be reversed? I adopted a baby so I know all about RAD and neglect, etc. but I really want to know if anyone has had any experience with this? I just think that the baby is getting “behind” due to the neglect, more so than the drugs. What are your thoughts?

Other than the weight gain problem and the blank stare, she seems healthy. I know she could have some brain damage or something going on (God forbid). It’s not a secret that DSS would call family members first and we are licensed already so it would probably be us. I’m trying to be prepared by being informed of what to do to help this baby as much as possible. My hope is that they remove the baby but only temporarily so they can get the mother into drug rehab or something. In the meantime, it would be nice if a family member could take care of the baby and put some weight on the poor thing! I have one other family member that could possible take the baby for a while. I would foster this child to get the mother help if that is possible and I would like to be able to help the baby in that period also. Please give me your thoughts? I really don’t want to adopt this baby so please don’t go bashing me for trying to steal a child or anything. I just know the mother and I know that she is not going to willingly change her habits for anybody so it would take something drastic to wake her up. If you’ve been investigated by DSS 3 times and you’re still not taking it seriously, you need a wake up call. She does some heavy drugs and it’s to the point that I’m afraid she’s got short term memory problems. Don’t suggest that we (as a family) should have done something to help the mom before because we have all tried. You can’t check someone into rehab, they have to sign themselves in. She did once but she signed herself right back out. I’m just saying that because I know all those adoptees with issues are going to be on my case. Anyway, whatever happens, I would like to be able to help this child be as healthy as possible, no matter what is in store for her future so any advice you can give, I’m listening.

Thanks!!

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I did not post the details of my situation when I initially asked if I could give my baby up for adoption because I knew the hate that was likely to come in my direction.

However, since I have asked additionally, for clarification on why so many in this section seem to be anti adoption & many of you read my first question… you are assuming the reason I want to give my child up is financial, or lack of support, or even young age, unmarried…These are the most common reasons, but they are not my reasons. Let me tell you what happened briefly (as is possible) & please then only answer if you have something worthwhile to contribute that is not hateful & judgemental. I am already HUGELY aware that what has occured is “wrong” in the eyes of many. I am trying to find the most responsible solution.

I am married. I have 4 children (all with the same father, my husband). They range in age from 13 to 4. I have a great job. Lots of money. But I am gone A LOT. My husband stays home with our kids & helps @ lunch @ the kids’ Montessori. He is a good man. He puts up with a lot.

A while back I was introduced to a man I wil call John at a party. We had a brief relationship & I got pregnant sleeping with him once…yes, yes, poor judgement, lack of self control, sin, irresponsible toward my family…I agree. But none of that changes the current situation. I could not bring myself to have an abortion because I know & love the 4 children I have & I had a period of time after I found out I was pregnant with my 4th child (&my son was only 8 months old & I was entering a very intense portion of my training) that I considered terminating my pregnancy. But every time I look at her I think how much poorer I would be if I didn’t have her. So I chose not to terminate this pregnancy either.

John is struggling in life. He is 38 & has an 18 year old daughter who lives w her mother in a dif state. He missed out on most of her life because he was busy using. After spending some time in prison & successfully completing a lengthy drug treatment & rehab program he has done a lot to turn his life around. But his prospects are limited due to his criminal record. He is excited about this baby.

But there is the obvious dillemma…this is not my husband’s baby. He at first was VERY angry with me which is understandable. He is now less angry & we are getting along well, but he doesn’t want to tell anyone about this pregnancy or have to explain anything. He has said that if I want to keep this baby I need to move out. If I move out, I will see my 4 kiddos even less than I do now.

I ask about giving the child up without John’s permission because I know that he would take the child. & I don’t think he would be a poor father, but I REALLY struggle with the effects on this baby…knowing that it has 4 siblings & a mother that live across town but living eternity wondering why I kept them & not it. I know that the child would still be involved in my life in some way, shape, or form even if he took custody….& that would be even harder on the child. To have some marginally/ minimally involved mother & being raised without its 4 siblings. So the thought was that the child would be better off with an adoptive family that was whole.

Ideally, I would like to keep this baby & raise it with my other 4 children. But I don’t know that my husband can come to a place where he could accept this. Especially since John will obviously be involved & would need to come to the house to pick the child up etc.

So tell me in this context what would be best? Please spare me the hate & the religious lectures. I am my own worst enemy. But I WOULD appreciate any sincere thoughts / perspectives.
Sorry. This is a book.
No Phil, I appreciated your answer. I just had some incorrect assumptions made about my situation & reasoning for thinking of adoption. I do thank you for your reply.

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