Confidential Drug Rehabilitation

My ex bf began taking cocaine at age 10 as well as drinking and having sex. His parents sent him to a rehab in grade 9 but when he got out he became a dealer and ended up doing time in jail. When he got out he went back to his old ways and ended up leaving a bad breakup of a 3yr relationship/family/fri ends all behind due to owing people money and the consequences he’d face if he stayed.
He moved back to the city where we went to school 10 years later and begged to take me on a date. I was hesitant because he was so bad as a kid and we weren’t friends but I eventually went and fell in love. There were so many ups and downs in the relationship taking money from me, selling his possessions etc. I stuck by him no matter how long he went without talking to me or what he did. I would do anything I could to show how much I cared, gifts, taking him out because he had no $ no job, cards, letters you name it I tried it. I took him on a Caribbean vacation and a week after we got home I was waiting for him to come over and he broke up with me when I called to ask where he was. For almost a month he’d call me on weekends saying he called me by accident b*tch and hang up. When I finally received a nice call he told me he was trying to make me hate him, it was his plan, he had wanted me to tell him to F off, but all I ever said were nice things and he couldn’t understand why I want to talk to him. Things had been good for about 2 months minus the fact he was still hard into cocaine/drinking that of which come before anything else any chance he gets. He always will choose going on benders with his friends over seeing me or any other normal activity. We were talking about what good terms we were on and planning a summer vacation a few days ago when 2 days later I call him and he texts saying “I have a girlfriend” when I called him he was with his friends prob 3 days without sleep on a drug/alcohol spree, I was so shocked and upset, he just told me not to call him, stay the F away from his family etc. I don’t believe he has a gf because I know him well enough to know we wouldn’t have spoke for the last few months if that was the case. I just don’t understand how addicts can abruptly change their minds so quick and lash out for NO reason! I am so hurt and not stupid, I am not happy when we are together because all he wants to do is drugs or drink (which I only drink) but when I am apart from him or know he wont speak to me I am so upset, it hurts to see him do this to himself.. what should I do?
He always says things like ” i wont be around for long” “everyone knows ill die from drugs or alcohol” “i don’t want to stop doing cocaine, its just who i am” “when hes doing the drug he says he doesn’t care about ne thing else except continuing to party” he eventually calms down when the high is over but he paces around cant sit still mumbles, looks through windows freaks out its so scary :(
He has a crazy temper and wants to starts fight with friends or anyone, he once threw a 26 across the room full… at the cabin he poured chocolate milk all over his sisters friends because he was mad

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My ex bf began taking cocaine at age 10 as well as drinking and having sex. His parents sent him to a rehab in grade 9 but when he got out he became a dealer and ended up doing time in jail. When he got out he went back to his old ways and ended up leaving a bad breakup of a 3yr relationship/family/friends all behind due to owing people money and the consequences he’d face if he stayed.
He moved back to the city where we went to school 10 years later and begged to take me on a date. I was hesitant because he was so bad as a kid and we weren’t friends but I eventually went and fell in love. Their were so many ups and downs in the relationship taking money from me, selling his possessions ect. I stuck by him no matter how long he went without talking to me or what he did. I would do anything I could to show how much I cared, gifts, taking him out because he had no $ no job, cards, letters you name it I tried it. I took him on a carribean vacation and a week after we got home I was waiting for him to come over and he broke up with me when I called to ask where he was. For almost a month he’d call me on wknds saying he called me by accident b*tch and hang up. When I finally received a nice call he told me he was trying to make me hate him, it was his plan, he had wanted me to tell him to F off, but all I ever said were nice things and he couldn’t understand why I want to talk to him. Things had been good for about 2 months minus the fact he was still hard into cocaine/drinking that of which come before anything else any chance he gets. He always will choose going on benders with his friends over seeing me or any other normal activity. We were talking about what good terms we were on and planning a summer vacation a few days ago when 2 days later I call him and he txts saying “I have a girlfriend” when I called him he was with his friends prob 3 days without sleep on a drug/alch spree, I was so shocked and upset, he just told me not to call him, stay the F away from his family ect. I don’t believe he has a gf because I know him well enough to know we wouldn’t have spoke for the last few months if that was the case. I just don’t understand how addicts can abrubtly change their minds so quick and lash out for NO reason! I am so hurt and not stupid, I am not happy when we are together because all he wants to do is drugs or drink (which I only drink) but when I am apart from him or know he wont speak to me I am so upset, it hurts to see him do this to himself.. what should I do?
He always says things like ” i wont be around for long” “everyone knows ill die from drugs or alchohol” “i dont want to stop doing cocaine, its just who i am” “when hes doing the drug he says he doesnt care about ne thing else except continuing to party” he eventually calms down when the high is over but he paces around cant sit still mumbles, looks through windows freaks out its so scary :(
He has a crazy temper and wants to starts fight with friends or anyone, he once threw a 26 across the room full… at the cabin he poured chocolate milk all over his sisters friends because he was mad.

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So, I just got out of rehab and then a halfway house (total of 8 months) and am living back with my uncle in a new town. Like the title says, I’m a recovering addict (world of warcraft if you can believe that). Got a new job a little bit ago and I like…really don’t like keeping secrets from people. I feel like all the managers at my store like me and everyones chill with me, nobody is really questioning my story that I just moved into town and all that (which is semi-true anyway). So there isn’t really any pressure on me to tell the truth, I just want to tell my bosses the truth because I know from experience with new friends I’ve made it’s just easier that way. Problem is, I don’t know really how to do that and WHEN to do that. Any suggestions? Please bear in mind I do want to come clean about my history sometime, in my mind it’s just a question of when and how.

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Ok, well this is a little embarrasing, but i have a masturbating problem and i need to quit it now. I’m 14 years old, and i need to quit this discusting crap now once and for all. I’ve gotten soooo much better at it, and i’ve usually only been dooing it every other day, but it’s still not good enough. I hate feeling like a pervert, i want to be the good guy who doesnt rush girls into sex, and doesnt stare at a girl’s chest every time she walks into a room. Good gosh, I’m abstenent, I’m not supposed to be like this!!! I’m freaking discusting, and i need help to get out of this addiction.

PLEASE anyone help me!!!
I just want to know how i can stop this without cutting my thing off.

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I have so many questions about the one addiction I don’t understand. What do the significant others do to save sanity, and when is enough? Should you confront the person, or send subtle hints that you’re aware of the goings on? It’s gotten to the point that my boyfriend stays up all night, comes home from work once an hour to masturbate in secret, and then tells me he has no sex drive because of our finances right now. No sex drive? He masturbates 15-20 times a day! That’s very deceitful and I feel our relationship is a lie, that he leads a double life. I’m sick of literally begging for attention. I can’t compete with the images online! He’s in denial, and it’s ruined what we have left of our relationship. Is there any hope, or should I run?

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I’ve been addicted to oxycodone for the past 2 years. Before anyone corrects me, I’m not dependent on prescribed medication, I’m addicted to prescription medication not prescribed to me. I’m ready to quit, because I’m tired of the financial strain it’s put on me, and because I’m sick and tired of going through these massive withdrawals when I don’t have any. I don’t know what to do, I’ve kept this completely hidden from family and friends this whole time, I’ve got no one to turn to, and no idea where to start on the road to recovery. I’ve heard of the traditional methadone treatment, but I’ve heard dependency develops with that, too. Also, I’ve heard of Suboxone treatment but my supplier told me his wife is on it, and the doctor told her she’d be on it the rest of her life. I wanna get off pills, not switch to another alternative. I am far too terrified to jus go cold turkey, and get over it, I tried once, but after 8 days, the withdrawals had not let up and I relapsed. I’m so lost, if it helps anyone to give me advice, I’ve been taking 3, 80mg OxyContins for the past 2 years, everyday. That’s 320mg everyday. Is there anyone who’s gone through this before? What can I do? Please no judgemental answers, I feel terrible enough, considering I’m only 18, and am already an addict, and have gone through alcoholism, meth addiction, and nicotine addiction. I need help, can anyone help me?

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Not long-term, but for evaluation, treatment, and detox. She is not using illegal street drugs, but large amounts of Tramadol and Darvocet, prescriptions of which she obtained offline from pharmacies in other countries, without her psychiatric doctor’s knowledge because she has a history of alcoholism. We cannot talk to her doctor to tell him this because of doctor-patient-confidentiality. She has not proven a danger to herself or others, but is delusional to the point of not being able to function within our family, has auditory hallucinations, and I’m sure many other symptoms I do not know about. She stays up all night, which only makes her symptoms worse the next day. There is no one she is close to, because she thinks our entire family is out to get her and doing things that we aren’t, she won’t go to any stores because they think she is talking about her, and won’t even go get the mail because she thinks the neighbors are against her. She sits inside all day, delusional and on drugs, and we no longer know what steps to take

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My Signifacant other has horrid moodswings at times and finds things to complain about when there is no reason , and shifts blame to me when things are not my fault , he says he is an addict without an addiction ? what does that mean and does anyone know how i help him or help myself understand him , no break up with him answers please.

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