My husband of eighteen years has been texting a lot to a single woman and staying at her house overnight (to play cards with friends supposedly), he has photos of other women on his phone (but deleted them when I snooped and admitted it), plus he had his credit card statement sent electronically and not to the house since June and he refuses to let me see it telling me it would upset me more, PLUS he has been working on HER house when ours needs repair. AND I found sexy photos of his bartender that he said he took to enter her in a contest (nobody else was in the bar). He hardly spends anytime with his kids and when he did spend time (when I went to a funeral) he was texting her on and off the whole time (I know this for a fact). He also goes to the bar everynight after work and comes home when he feels like it to a cold dinner (which I told him was not acceptable) and goes out all day on weekends and has come home very drunk and arrogant many times in the past year. He has spent over $1,000 at the bar that I know of. After I exploded and told him I didn’t like what he was doing he told me they were just friends and the would cut down on the drinking and spend time at home He also deleted all of the contacts to females, but has hidden his old cell phone that contains all of the numbers as well. But he still text her just as heavy and has gone back to the bar after being absent from there for three days (she goes there after work). When I told him that I wouldn’t take it anymore and drew the line he told me I was blowing things out of proportion. After years of his alcoholism and flirting with other women in front of me and my kids, now THIS. I’m ready for a divorce. I worked on our marriage all of those years including counseling (he refused to go but I went) and al-anon. I have had enough and KNOW I’m not blowing things out of proportion and he wonders why I’m am so angry at him. Well, duh. But what do you think?
Yes, after reading what I wrote and a few answers, I think that he just isn’t interested in being married at all anymore. Sad that after 18 years of marriage and four years of dating it would all come down to this, but it has.

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