I helped my fiancee recover from alcoholism and he got a new girlfriend HELP NOW?

March 19, 2010 admin 6 comments

I am at my witts end. I helped my fiancee of 5 years recover from drugs and alcohol. We have a beautiful daughter.

I spent my whole entire pregnancy watching him come in at 6-7AM, watching him pee in the corner of our bedroom because he didn’t know where he was. Id hide his keys Id call his boss I tried it all he fought me he won. I cleaned up his puke, I put him in rehab and paid outta pocket.

I had enuff and left him. He just got a new girlfriend. He is actually seriously now clean and sober. And its because of my 2 years of paying bills of his rehab. Now I am heartbroken. I am happy for him but I paid about 2 thousand for his rehab. He has met someone there,

Now I am just a loser who paid his bills. I have full custody of our daughter he sees her sometimes and says that the “new mom nicole” is so nice and pretty. I wasted all my life on making him happy with another woman right?

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Written by openminddid about 2 years ago.

You can look at it that way, or you can see that you helped someone who is very important to your daughter.
Written by Patrick D about 2 years ago.

yea its unfortunate what u had to go through..u were there for him in his biggest time of need and he turns around and find somebody else…but then again how do u know how long that is going to last? will u consider getting back with him if he wants u back and leaves the gf? those are some questions u will need to ask urself.
Written by Byron about 2 years ago.

it could be worst. just look at the bright side you did a good deed
Written by Tannish about 2 years ago.

u sid yr fiancee at the same time u have a daughter wats al this???im puzzled
Written by Judith about 2 years ago.

This is very common. People who get clean seldom want anyone around who reminds them of who they were before. He is not a very mature person and has nothing to add to your life. You are the victim here and have nothing to be ashamed about.

Yes you paid his way for 2 years but alot of women make this mistake but you have a wonderful daughter and are now made of sterner stuff. You won’t be used again. He will go on to treat women like bank books forever. He is who he is. Be glad that he won’t be around to foul up your daughters life.

Its hard to be used and thrown away but you have to think about who he was and who you are. He has no value as a person. You do. You can love and respect and care and give and grow. He can’t. If you met him today, knowing what you do about him, would you want him?
Written by Cat about 2 years ago.

Judith’s answer is perfect. Move on with your own life and try to let it go. You will never get that money back from him and its not worth the heartache. You didn’t waste your life totally – you have a beautiful daughter from it. There is a reasonable probability that he will fall off the wagon and that will be the new woman’s problem.
There will be someone out there who will respect and cherish you – don’t miss out on seeing him because you are too busy looking backward! Good luck to you and your wee girl.

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