you can sit here and say what to do and what not to do but when a son or daughter of yours is over the age of 18 , we as parents can sit and have our hands tied while our child is 19 or older, mine is 22 and an oxy addict so bad he slurrs his speach daily, i had him move out since his life is drama and he is disbled physically by a organ not funtuoning to its compacity, i can NOT make him go to detox or a rebab, im in waiting of the call , if any one in canada knows the law better then me and can help me help my child i would love it, but as it stands today, the law says they ( addicts ) can make thier own choices to get help or not to, i dont agree with it because sometimes they get so beyond the point of needing help they dont see what we see, then there becomes a funeral, i already burried our 11 yr old , with the condition son has, this one has a choice , to save himself and to live longer, thats the sad part to me, onc TRIED SO HARD TO LIVE and one WHO GAVE UP. where do i go from here, ? please dont be cold hearted and say my child ( adult now really 22 yrs old) should find out the hard way rock bottom, BECAUSE we have already had the last rights read 4 x. just that medical staff is GREAT at saving people, no rock bottom is for this child but death, so i rather save , but law and law issues just dont have it in place in canada, please try and give me adivice as i am losing my child . not critical or oppinions where what you would do, you have to fit my shoe size and be there to know what my hell is. right now i avoid my kid, becuase i cant no longer do it no more , nor do i keep it a family secret, i tell all , just to see if i can get advice, insead i am getting grief from inlaws, not my fam. im alone in this as hubby eyes are so closed and distant from fianl straw. Death. that is reality to me. childs choice of drugs are pill of oxys, perks, pain klillers, alcohol, whatever he can do, im thinking maybe crack but he really dont have the cash for that drug again . yes AGIAIN. i put him in rehab for it when i could, now he is in deniel. refuses down right for help. he is fine , daily high slurrs his speach and says he hates life, its a matter of time, im AWAKE in this but hands tied, unless someone in canada here can help me what i can do or where i can go for help ,

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