Example:infidelity, addiction, criminal behavior.
How long could you keep such a secret and when would you break down and spill the beans if ever?
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4ever unless they tell u to spill the beans.
I’ll take any secret to the grave. But if it was addiction I’d want to talk to them about getting help. But I wouldn’t tell anyone.
Forever!
I would still do my best to help my friend, and do anything for her.
I say to my students you shouldn’t keep any secrets where someone is being hurt, or someone is breaking the law. I don’t know in reality if my best friend’s partner was having an affair whether I’d tell her though! That would be tough!
For the rest of their lives.Unless it puts someone in danger.
aaahhhhhhh HARE, i’d take such a secret to my grave! you know me, i’m an open book, all anyone has to do is ask, i will share anything! as for between friends, if there is no trust, no honesty is there truly friendship or anything else! if one can not let down their guard, then one will surely stand alone, and that is so very lonely. trust is love, love is being accepted for who you are! being trusted with such an emotional secret is also a burden, if the trust is great and you want to carry that burden then that is truly love, however people are human and betrayal is paramount, be careful what you chose to undertake, or reveal within your heart!♥
one breath at a time!♥
If this secret is putting my friend in danger of any kind, I would first inform my friend that I will talk to where help can be found, and then, I would address there. If I keep a secret just for the sake of secrecy or just because my friend asked me to …while their whole existence is in danger, is not only silly, but almost criminal. If my friend is in danger and I don’t bring help even if this has to make me uncover a secret, makes me accessory to any damage might be caused to him/her.
Needless to say, if this secret is not to bring any danger to their future, or we can deal about it just the two of us, I will keep it for life. Some times, I might uncover some of my own secrets… but of my friends, never. Even if I am to be accused of something. Friendship is above all
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