How do you tell your wife you love her and you can’t breathe without her?

March 27, 2010 admin 10 comments

23 Years of marriage, 10 years of alcoholism for me with three years of sobriety. We are separated now but talk alot and are intimate when we can be. Many, many mistakes along the way including 2 affairs, but I keep getting called home or to come spend the weekends with her. There is alot of love from me and seems to be alot of love for me in her hidden behind alot of hurt and anger. When we’re together it is very passionate, more so than ever, when we are apart she’s undecided about us and leaves me to believe it’s over but then tells me she loves me. I keep asking her if I am a fill in for sex until someone else come’s along and her answer’s change with her mood. How do I get into her heart and mend it? I’m afraid sooner or later I will hear about someone else and our circle of hurt will just continue.

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Written by Miss Magen about 2 years ago.

Propose to her again. While proposing, mention about starting over fresh and tell her that you can’t breathe without her by your side. Her answer to that question will answer 1000 of your own. If she says no, you can move on and be glad that you didn’t linger for a long time and pine over it just to get hurt.
Written by Mr. Felix about 2 years ago.

You must stay positive. It sounds like you two can repair the damages and move forward. But it all will depend on your ability to stay focused on what you truly want. You’ve done something over the past three years that proves that you can do anything you set your mind to. My wife and I have only been married for six and a half years but I think I understand just how you feel. Good luck to you and all the best!
Written by Chris S about 2 years ago.

” I love you and can’t breath without you”

Tell her this before it’s too late

You’re better now, keep getting better, don’t screw up.

give her all of you.
Written by tiger lilly about 2 years ago.

pretty dysfunctional and weird. maybe she would like to let you go, but you are so smothering. she cant let u go.
Written by Truth Hurts about 2 years ago.

She has stuck with you through a lot and it sounds like she really does love you, but there is a lot of trust that needs to be rebuilt first. You have to accept that she may not take you back and if that is the case there isn’t much you can do. But just keep showing your love and don’t give her any room to doubt you (no flirting, porn, looking at women, etc.)

Good luck and you are a lucky man to have been married to a woman like that. Many would have walked away.
Written by The Fat Man about 2 years ago.

Circle of hurt?
That’s a good one!
Written by Ms.Tellitlkeitis about 2 years ago.

Once done is done and can’t be redone. You need to stop answering her little night calls, etc. Regardless of what happened or how much you love her you need to have space for yourself and for her so you both can see what it is that you both want. For God sakes don’t tell her you can’t breathe without her unless you want to be tow things (used) or (heartbroken when she thinks your ridiculous). I wouldn’t tell you to do that, no human should ever give another being all of their power because you’ll regret it later. Tell her you love her, you understand that you done wrong, etc. You were an alcoholic and they do unbecoming things, ask for forgiveness and tell her you really love her. Tell her you are grateful for her still being in your life. Tell her that you love her with all of your heart and that you want the two of you together again. If she goes through the same spill then you stop making yourself her little booty call. You don’t have to be used that away no matter what and you shouldn’t allow it.
Written by Jery E about 2 years ago.

old people having sex. eeeewwwwww.
Written by x2000 about 2 years ago.

Wife,

I love you and cannot breathe without you. Please forget the two affairs, and half the time spent drunk, all the times I hurt you, or what a complete stupid dirt ball I am. I just realized that I can’t get anyone better, so please do not dump me. I have been checked out thoroughly, and I do not have STDs from the affairs. So ignore the behavior for most of our marriage because that’s really not me, and please please please continue to be my doormat.

Love, Husband Dearest
Written by ♥ L u f f ♥ about 2 years ago.

That is tough. But you know what? If she cannot get passed your infidelity she has NO business sleeping with you and being intimate. NOR do you… Because you have these feelings for her.

If you have not been to counseling, you need to. Funny for me to say because I am younger than you. So it feels weird to suggest. She starts to feel different when your apart because you are not there to stay connected and grow close again. Her mind probably wonders back to things that happened and she is once again angry all over again. And rightly so if you cheated. However, still she needs to make up her mind and YOU need to do what ever it takes to prove to her she is the only one when it comes to beer or women.

Love can survive if you both put your heart and soul into it. And really what can some other man give her that would not be better coming from you? You have a history and obviously strong love and connection. You will have to be patient but STOP sleeping with her… AT least for now…

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