How can I tell my boyfriend I’m pregnant?

March 15, 2010 admin 38 comments

We have been dating for 3 months now.. I’m 2 months pregnant! My boyfriend Shawn wanted kids before.. but now..he says he dont want any.. I been keeping this a secret, but I think I should tell him now.. He is 27 and I’m 26.. I don’t know if I should get a abortion, consider adoption, or keep the baby.. Help me!! I might be pregnant with 3 kids!! He won’t take care of the babies.. I know he won’t… His dream to become CEO came true! He won’t have no time to take care of his kids.. I’m actually crying right now!! I have to take care of my niece and nephew because my sister is in rehab and just had a baby but dont know who the father is.. I don’t want to end up like that!! HELP ME!! please..
No I meant I might have 3!! I DONT KNOW!! HELP ME!!
But what if he dont take care of the kids!! WHAT TO DO!?!?

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Written by rockies fan about 2 years ago.

well say ” You made me pregnant so your going to have to deal with kids”
Written by silverblack12345 about 2 years ago.

So you already have 3 kids? WOW, you should consider aborting the pregnancy. And from now on, use protection, PLEASE!
Written by ♥iM a hOt hOt sHaWtY♥ about 2 years ago.

I would maybe say something along the lines of “honey im pregnant.”
Written by Sumone about 2 years ago.

wow.. like.. i think you should just tell him and then you two can decide TOGETHER what your choice is going to be. i think that is the best way to solve this.
Written by American Beauty about 2 years ago.

Adoption is the best option if you cannot keep the baby.
Written by Lost Soul about 2 years ago.

Text him
Written by Saravannan =D about 2 years ago.

First, Calm down, the best thing to do right now is to think about all the fun you can have with them, babies are fun, if you have trouble taking care of all of them, get help. Ask a neighbour, explain your problem and I’m sure they’d be more than glad to help, and about your boyfriend, tell him, better to tell him now so he’s prepared rather than later.
Written by shorty about 2 years ago.

well tell him he might understand get a nanny or something to help
Written by elephantstew about 2 years ago.

Wait a few months , he`s sure to believe you.
Written by ♥Larry's Wife♥ about 2 years ago.

You just need to come right with it..Keeping it in and getting all upset over it is only going to make it worse..
The fact that you have only been with him for 3 months may put a strain on the relationship but he needs to know regardless of what you plan doing..

I know I would keep my baby and if ANY man told me otherwise then I would kick him to the curb…
Just me though!!
Written by kate j about 2 years ago.

talk to your boyfrind and see what he says and then make a decision on and follow your heart
Written by Tawn about 2 years ago.

You are in a very unfortunate position. You are pretty much past a time that you could get an abortion…please consider adoption if you do not want the baby or know that you can not provide for it like it needs to be!
Written by sammi.romero about 2 years ago.

Girl you got a problem… but… my personal opinion is that if that boy really loved you then he would help you take care of that baby. If you know he ain’t going to help you…. then why are you with him in the first place? Instead of being hot & heavy with him in the first month, you should’ve been trying to get to know him… and then later on find out if you wanted him to be the father of your kids.

If you truly can’t take care of that baby… think about adoption… do not kill that baby. It ain’t the baby’s fault you screwed up!!!
Written by Countrygirl2 about 2 years ago.

First go to the doctor and let him check it out to make sure that you are! If you are then you should really tell your bf. If he finds out too late theres a good chance that he definently will leave. DO NOT GET AN ABORTION. That is murder! You could put it up for adoption. What about your parents would they help you.Just tell your boyfrind that it was accident but it was also a miricule. You created a life. He needs to understand that its his child(ren) and he needs to take the respobsibilty of his actions. Good luck!
Written by carol anne about 2 years ago.

your boyfriend may change his mind about wanting children when he finds out about your pregnancy. buy him a newborn outfit and give it to him as a present. you may find that he is happy about it. if that goes over badly think about adoption please….please.
Written by honey_delong about 2 years ago.

why do you think you are pregnant with 3 kids? and if you just think your pregnant and dont know for sure you need to find out for sure before you stress yourself out even more. if you take a test and you are in fact pregnant you need to set him down and let him know… and you need to decide what you want before talking to him… its not up to him if you keep the baby or not… its up to you.. do what you think is right whatever it may be. then let him know what youve decided… and ask what his opinions are… dont be down.. your a great person for taking care of your sisters children. but there comes a point when you need to start your own life… your 26 now.. when do you want to have children? when do you want to have your own life? good luck to you
Written by mjammy1978 about 2 years ago.

be honest with him
Written by william about 2 years ago.

You got to discuss with him right the way. the little baby is getting bigger and bigger everyday, you can’t hiding it in once day. Your guy should face the and solve the problem not avoid the problem.

my advise , DONT ABORTION . if you do, you will regret in the future.
Written by Maria about 2 years ago.

Well congrats. I think that you should keep the baby since you are 2 months pregnant and the baby is already developing inside. As for your sisters kids, isnt there anyone else who could help you with them, like take them for weekends or something.
Your boyfriend might like being a dad after thinking about it.

Hope it all works out fine and let me know what happens.
Written by jackbutler5555 about 2 years ago.

Okay, you know he doesn’t want a baby. What do you want then? Then do it. He should be out of the picture. Your big problem isn’t the baby as much as it is this guy. Dump him. Get on with your life. Be careful with contraception from now on.
Written by Dalice Nelson about 2 years ago.

If you aren’t a troll, I don’t want to share a space in the world with you.
Written by Kay3535 about 2 years ago.

Tell him. You’re stressing out right now, and with good reason! That’s not good for the baby. Whatever decision you make about keeping the baby has to be the right one for you, but it sounds like you’re under too much stress right now. Tell him and let him have some input on making the decision. Besides, if he just became a CEO, he can probably afford to help you hire a nanny!
Written by blebert2002 about 2 years ago.

First off, Calm Down! If you end up a single mom, it’s not the end of the world, it can be done. I was a single mom of 2 at the age 22.

Now, you need to tell him as soon as possible. You need to go to the doctor. If he tells you he don’t want kids, then take his a$$ to court once the baby is here and make him pay child support. If he is a CEO, then he can pay you some money for his kid.
Written by iyamacog about 2 years ago.

You are already 2 mos pregnant. It is too late for an abortion.
Please eliminate that choice. If you are able to provide for your baby, then by all means have it, and with proof that he is the father, he is legally obligated to provide you with financial support. If you feel you are unable to provide for your baby, then give it to a couple you know would provide a him/her with a loving life. (thus adoption) Whatever the circumstance, advise Shawn that he is to be a father, whether he likes it or not. Please be strong, and make the best choice for you AND your baby. I wish you the very best.
Written by Nina about 2 years ago.

You just tell him.
Then go from there.
Sounds like you don’t know for sure if you are pregnant.
Written by Pokadots about 2 years ago.

If you truly feel you cannot care for this baby please consider adoption. My Aunt and uncle could not have children and adopted a darling little girl. Your pregnancy could be a blessing to another couple who cannot have children.
My baby cousin Jenna is a huge part of our family and I can’t imagine that her mother could have aborted her… please at least consider letting the child(ren) live!
Written by chrysteena about 2 years ago.

don’t have an abortion…. your boyfriend sounds indecisive…. first he wanted kids … now he doesn’t…. and if he just became a CEO… he should be in a better position to take care of your child…(financially)… and CEO’s have to multi-task a lot… so he will just have to figure out how to balance home and work…. (its a necessity!) i think he deserves more credit than you’re giving him…. as men who make it in big business tend to be more responsible…. and yes you both are responsible for being pregnant… all i can tell you is do not have an abortion…. and seriously consider your thoughts on adoption… you will only end up like your sister if you walk down that path…. for one… you know who the father of your child is…. and do you really mean to tell me that you would take in your niece, nephew, and sisters new born baby…. and get rid of your own? thats a bit odd… i understand you love them and its not their fault that they are in that situation… but the same applies to your own unborn child…. the difference is … that your child shares half of your genetics…. if the guy wants to leave let him leave (i doubt he will) but none of this is worth not giving your child a chance at life…. good luck and congrats!
Written by LGM about 2 years ago.

From what you write about your boyfriend, it looks like you will be a single mom like your sister, if you keep the baby. – Make up your mind first, if you think you can handle a child (or three of them, if you are really expecting triplets) on your own. If you feel you want the baby, I suggest you find a lawyer and check out, what your legal options are. Even if your boyfriend might not want a child, he still is the father and obliged to pay for his up-bringing. If he is a CEO now, he is bound to have the money for it.
Written by Sweet girl about 2 years ago.

No matter that he not going take care of his child. But he will have to pay child support. I am 27 right now and I have two boys 5 and 3. My oldest dad been in out of his live and he has to pay child support. And my youngest has nothing to do with him and he has to pay child support has well. I know want you going through. Have a talk with him and tell him. If he doesn’t want it and you decide to keep it then he will still have to pay child support no matter want. But if he see his baby then he could change his mind. But if you think you can handle taking care of the baby by yourself with your niece and nephew. You could give the baby up for adoption. Have a talk with him. Good luck..
Written by 4 Ever A Hustlers Wife!!!!!!!!! about 2 years ago.

can you say child support
Written by Tay about 2 years ago.

Sweetheart

My goodness. You do have a lot on your plate! I understand you being scared, afraid of crushing his dreams, that he might be disapointed.. don’t consider abortion. Those possibley 3 kids could be the miracles in your life. Honey, those are your kids. You need to bring them into this world. And if he loves you, truly loves you, he will be behind you all the way, 100%.

If you know he won’t take care of the babies, then try talking to him. Try getting help. Talk to mom, dad. Anyone you know who can be there for you. Don’t cry, sweetie it will all be okay. You won’t end up like your sister. Your better then that. You really are. Just bring those kids into this world, and love them. They will change your life soooo miraculously. It will all be okay.

e-mail me. bound4tx@hotmail.com

or you could IM…..i want you to know that you have support behind you, and you will get through this.

-taylor ( ill be here if you ever need me )
Written by cgates_2006 about 2 years ago.

If he’s a CEO he can afford to support the child(ren) he helped create whether he stays with you or not.

Tell him and go from there.

Good luck!
Written by flygrl16 about 2 years ago.

Well, if he doesn’t want kids he should of never stuck it in. If he wants to be a CEO, he needs to get his priorities straight and start acting like a man . You on the other need to correct your grammar and then worry about relationships. Also, if you are going by what he says, how sad for you, you can’t even make up your own decisions. If you don’t’ want that thing, then you should of never had sex in the 1st place you noob!
Written by Chani about 2 years ago.

Tell him “jerk, wear a condom next time”. He’ll get the hint. I’ll bet that he’ll be happy because deep down inside he probably wants a kid. It’s like me before I got my ipod. I had told my parents that it was the only thing I wanted for christmas, but they told me how expensive they were, so I became determined that I did NOT want one. I would even get angry when my father would put it back on my christmas list. I was suprised when I opened up the ipod on christmas day, but at the same time I was overwhelmed with joy. Besides, if he’s a CEO now, money will not be an issue.
Written by I luv Justin BaBy! <3 about 2 years ago.

Abortion is an option, and you might want to put the baby up for adoption if you don;t like the idea of abortion. I really hope everything works out!!!!!!
Written by ♥ Val ♥ about 2 years ago.

pleez dont abort the baby!! an unborn child is still a child, and if u no that u wont be able to take care of he/she, theres always adoption, there are thousands of couples out there who cant conceive, and would happily take that child into a loving family!! and as far as telling ur bf goes, just say it flat out, ” i am pregnant” and then u sit down and have a talk.
Written by maddieeisme about 2 years ago.

I would get an adoption, you don’t sound ready. But you do have to tell him, if he will help you, then keep them. If he wont help, give them up for adoption, they deserve a full complete family. :]
Written by Padme S about 2 years ago.

Well i would just take him aside directly and tell him that u are pregnant. Thats what i did with my boyfriend and we are only sixteen though i will be seventeen in four days. I mean he wasn’t wanting a baby i mean we are only seventeen and i was even on birth control..But i told him and things are fine and he is really good about it…He now bends down to my stomach and kisses it and talks to our daughter…If this man truly loves u i am sure things will turn out fine.

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