This is a long read, my thanx goes out to whoever takes the time to address this situation. There is much here, so read the entire thing before assuming you know how to help. Once again, any help, would help.
*sigh*

My Dads mother left him when he was 7.
His Father was alcoholic, not around long either…
My Parents have been together since high-school. Growing up, he was into drugs/drinks. Had then two kids, got sober, took prescription drugs. (depression, pain etc.) Several years later & after the kids young adults 21+, hes now facing retirement, & begins sneaking drinks, then loses control, re-laps hits. Can’t quit. Hides empty beer cans every where. Tries to cover it up w/ mouth wash, gum, etc. He doesn’t much care to go out w/ the family. Tends to keep to him-self…Job is also confidential. Family has called it to attention twice, recommend Rehab if not sober by retirement. He agreed It still goes on, hiding it %75 of the time. Now-then, to my question. The Family finds out, all oseparatete accounts. Father is on a dating sight, Has gone out with several different women- one e-mail revealed that he was honest to other women in telling her that he was “a married man, in a love-lesmarriagege…”

How should one feel, what is possiblele step to put the family back on track??

This is correctable, right?

Thanx, Happy Holidays. Love is the only gift you should give this season.

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